2006-08-03 19:00:01 · 17 answers · asked by khurram.faheem 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I think that whatever you and your partener feel comfortable doing, is fine. Just keep the sex away.
(which can be hard, so before you fool around, you should make sure that you have good self-control)
I am Christian, by the way...
I have also heard that anything resembling sex is a "no-no", like fingering or hand jobs... But, uh... i figure that as you are not having sex, then you are okay...
2006-08-03 19:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by lvbrt 2 · 8⤊ 6⤋
I'm christian, I am not married and I've fooled around with some girls, I've found that sometimes it gets too close, once your in that situation hormones and instincts start to take over. Now, I'm keeping it to a minimum (kissing and cuddling) in the hopes of finding true love, I believe that if you learn to love someone without all the distractions of instinct, when you do give then everything it will be amazing.
2006-08-04 02:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Austin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then what is fooling around? Kissing? Holding hands? Or more graphic things...? I just think any sort of sexual act is a wrong thing to do, before marriage. No sex (in ANY form) before marriage! I'm Pagan, by the way.
2006-08-04 02:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like dancing on the edge of a cliff...one little slip up and you're over the edge. From my experience of "experimenting" a lot I would say not to do it. Sex/fooling around when you're married and not with who ever is VERY different and worth waiting.
2006-08-04 02:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Hindu. Hinduism recommends that you try to contain yourself as much as possible and focus on your spiritual practices, but that is about as much as it does. It is just a recommendation, it doesn't condemn kissing, hugging, fondling, nor does it condemn premarital sex. It just makes recommendations to the devotee on ways to maintain and even improve one's spiritual practices with as little interference as possible. But in the end it is left up to the individual to decide. Afterall only the individual knows themself the best.
2006-08-04 02:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_zachary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If, by fooling around you mean fondling, kissing, etc, there is nothing wrong with it. Everyone will regard this their own way, but I feel that as long as abstinence is maintained, there is nothing wrong with some kissy and huggy.
2006-08-04 02:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by truthseeker909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a muslim, you should know that contacts with a woman is not right. looking or oogling her isn't right either.
Marriage is to avoid you from such sins.
2006-08-04 02:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by LeScorned 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex or not, whatever. It's alright if you want it to happen. Whatever makes you happy.
Oh, and I'm an atheist Satanist.
2006-08-04 02:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by bloody_gothbob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show your fiance' the same respect you would want her father shown his daughter. Honor her and her family and you show true love.
2006-08-04 02:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by foxray43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it ok to kiss and stuff but u need to wait till marriage to have sex of any kind!! and u need to keep ur hands to ur self untill then!!
2006-08-04 02:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by BlondeCheerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋