Say you have this good friend of the opposite sex and you have dated he/she before. You find that you still really like this person after the first relationship didnt work out and the person you dated is in a bad relationship now. How would you help this friend but try to get back into a relationship with them at the same time?
2006-08-03 18:54:36 · 9 answers · asked by chelseanaynay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but the thing about our first relationship 2-gether was ok...he took me 2 a dance and we were havin a good time...then his one friend started sayin ignorant things about me and told me my boyfriend said them....i broke up with him then found out he didnt do it...and he told me he wuz upset i broke up with him but what was i suppose 2 do? we talked it out and are still friends...but now i want 2 be way more then that...i just dont know how 2 approach this...he said it wasnt bad going out with me
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2006-08-03 18:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him out by being a friend, but a /friend/ only. Don't try to get back together again. There's a reason the relationship failed the first time, and it won't end well the second. The most you can hope for is to keep him as a friend.
2006-08-04 02:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_lil_cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well....if u really love him tell him how u feel...ask him and tell him why ur relationship didnt work out the first time so u guys can try and solve then....tell him how ssry u were for beliving his freind....love him dont just play wioht his heart to be more than a freind!!! guys have hearts too!!! if u wanna chat email me at sciontuner899@yahoo.com and if u have messenger add me too
2006-08-11 21:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by music man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be easy to tell them 'hey look, we've been together before and I still like you...I don't know what you feel..but i really do like you and wanna get back with you'....simple, right?........if you cant say it, then write it!...if you cant get it out of your chest, then you probably don't trust each other enough to even be together yet.
2006-08-12 01:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Diana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once trust is broken its hard to get it back! as friends there is not as much need for trust as there is in love.....its a long hard road back to full trust and after what happened can you make it that far?
2006-08-12 01:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by sick_of_games4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.....as he is ur Good Friend u can anytime hold his hand........coz Friendship always alive inspite of time u havnt met.......so go ahead support him as he is in bad time........give ur shoulder to him....................n I bet u he will come back after your such a gr8 support.
Best Luck.
2006-08-04 02:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when people break up and go out again, it ends badly. dont go out them again, cuz most likely they will do the same thing to hurt you that they did before and you will break up again. go out with someone else.
2006-08-12 01:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by jessica l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go home again. You can't!
2006-08-11 18:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
second time???????????
2006-08-11 11:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋