ok theres this girl that I really like eand everybody thinks we should b together, why doesnt she?

Question

we are perfect together, everybody sees it, she akknowlages that we would be a good match but she shows no interest and I dont mean to be conceded but I'm really attractive (or so I'm told) so it cant be because of looks........ am I doing somthing wrong, or does she like me and I'm just missing something, how can I find out, I know that if she gave it a try she would love it, because at this point it almost feels that I love her

I never did ask her out, she just seems uninterested, but I dont know maby she's just a little shy............ ah I didnt mean that to come across that I was cocky or anything, I'm not obscessed, I've just asked people this question before and their first answer was, "maby your ugly" so I just didnt want that answer............ but what do you all think, am I missing a sign?

I want to ask her, But I'm worried about messing up out friendship...... but then again, is risking somthing good worth it when you can get somthing else better from it? I mean she is perfect, when ever I'm arround her I feel like a different person I feel like I can take on the world, but her not being there is my kryptonyte(or however you spell that). whenevery she is arround I just go crazy in my mind and we can always talk about real stuff, the more I talk about it the more I think that I may actually be in love with her........... but part of me still does not want to risk it

Answer 1

Unless you're psychic, I suggest stop driving yourself crazy and ASK your friend. If she's a friend, she'll say yes or no, and the mind games can stop.

Answer 2

She might just not feel that way about you. You might be solidly in the "friend" category. She may not like to date guys who are too attractive b/c most guys that are hot know it and use that to their advantage. Guys who are a little less hot are usually going to work harder and we won't be sharing mirror time with them. Maybe she just doesn't want to be in a relationship. My best friend has a guy friend who would be perfect for her, but she has never been faithful in any relationship, so she won't date her friend b/c she doesn't want to hurt him. The point of my rambling is, you're not going to get the answer you want by asking complete strangers, so ask her. Ask her if she would consider going out with you and if not, why.

Answer 3

maybe she is turned off by your confidence in how good looking you are...who knows..but I'm a girl and I don't care if a guy looks like Paul Walker, if he has an attitude (not saying you do) or he is too into himself or a jerk (not that you are) I will not even take a double look. Just think about your personality.....and if it's anything but nice, she may not like that. And if you are a bore..she may like funny guys...who knows...

Answer 4

In a girls eyes attractiveness has nothing to do with it. It is the person you are on the inside. Perhaps that ego that you carry is what is hurting you. Drop the pretty boy attitude and open yourself up to her and she will come around OK.

Answer 5

ok properly 1st of all who does this woman think of she is?? this is absolutly loopy! And why the heck are u performing like this might probable be ok?? U might certainly not care to have yet another guy placed his palms al over ur woman?? Wow and ya knw wht i does not b shocked if she has accomplished something already with this guy...the reality that she might even evaluate shows that she's basically thinking bout herself and herself basically! Why do not u ask her how might she sense if u had intercourse wit somebody else... i'm advantageous she might have a issue with that! U might desire to the two placed ur foot down and tell her hell noo or circulate away this woman on my own! 9 cases outta 10 the way she's talkin she prob messed with this guy already..and how do u knw this guy does not have any stds? and he or she might desire to achieveable carry that back to you? I dunno yet u quite ned to reevaluate ur dating with this woman..I hve a guy and inspite of ways attracted i'm to somebody i might on no account permit yet another guy touch me in any respect!!

Answer 6

Ask her straight out what her problem is with the two of you being together. It's the only way you'll know for sure and you have nothing to loose

Answer 7

1. always where calone(however u spell it)
2. never talk to her after you'ved worked out a sweat.
3. set up a trap...talk to her friends.tell them to ask her what she likes on a man.see what she says and change your personality...or just have a girl give u a make-over to impress her..if she says she liked the old u...then your stuck...but i hope i helped!(even the slightest bit)
~lil girly girl~

Answer 8

Have you tried asking her out for dinner?? Maybe she is attracted to you and is shy... Make a move and see what your response is... good luck.

Answer 9

did u ask her out? maybe u never did and she is waiting for u to do that and doesnt want to look too desperate. and if she doesnt then ask her why and that will answer ur question.

Answer 10

you should be the one making a move on her..

not the other way around..

if you want her so badly, then go for it...

what the heck r u waiting ?