being a lady, i know what we look for in guys, so what do guys look for in girls besides being attractive and sex? honest answers only please.
2006-08-03 18:27:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to think that in order to be loved I had to look a certain way (perfect) and that if I didn't look like a model and perform like a porn star than I would be unappealing. I'm in my 30's and only recently have I been able to realize that it is so much more complicated. Attraction definately plays a part in an initial relationship. But ladies...LISTEN UP!!! Stop looking to the media to define yourself as attractive. I've talked to many male friends, co-workers, etc. They all say that they find different women attractive and most of them don't look for superskinny bodies. Case in point: I'm in reasonably good shape but my tummy isn't 100% flat. When I started working out...my significant other was a bit bummed because he said "I love your tummy". See, something I saw as a flaw was something he adores. With any quality man I think thats how it is. You don't have to be physically perfect. He's going to look at everything you have to offer. Are you a good person who will be a loving and supportive partner? Do you have hobbies and things in your life that make you interesting and give you substance? Are you a genuine person and can you share your real self? Those are the things I think will make you completely irresistable. Take care of yourself and your appearance in a healthy way and get out there and live YOUR life. I can almost guarantee that any man worth having will seek your attention!
2006-08-03 18:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by UCURGYPSY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She must:
1. Like me in return.
2. Be friendly and easy to talk to, witty & smart.
3. Be natural and not a prima donna.
4. Be single, unattached and childless.
5. Be of a child bearing age or capacity.
6. Financially independent.
7. Preferably of a certain race (sorry but you want the truth,everyone has their favourite types which turn them on).
8. Like a drink but not be a drunk.
9. Be a proper woman / lady and not a tomboy or butch.
10. Open minded and not a bigot.
2006-08-03 18:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence. It doesn't matter if your short and fat or skinny and beautiful, if you are confident in your own skin, guys will like that. I had the same problem in high school i was very shy, once i started hanging out with the guys more i found out that many of my closer friends wanted to date me but didn't want to get stuck in something with some self conscious girl who puts herself down A lot. Once they realized that i am okay with who i was i started getting asked out A lot... hope that helps my current boyfriend told me some of the same things, I have known him for 12 years (weve only been dating for the past year and half) and he told me he always liked me but never knew how i would react. He said it was a turn off when i would walk around with my head down. So chin up and have a smile, act confident and love who you are even if your a little quirky, sometimes thats fun too.
2016-03-26 22:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been trying to figure out the answer to this for a long time. After asking dozens of guys, the one words that constantly comes up is: CONFIDENCE!
It's so true! If you feel good about you, so will others. Your inner beauty will shine through no matter how you look.
2006-08-03 18:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by waterbabe23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "We look for the ability to support a man emotionally, patience, because men have a big responsibility in a relationship/marriage, and we look for the willingness to pick up a man, and not criticize. We look for support when we make decisions, whether the results are good or bad. We look for the eagerness to indulge us in every aspect of the relationship/marriage. We look for recognition when we attempt to make change. At the same time, we must learn to appreciate, honor and respect women."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-04 06:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is just me but intelligence (and that doesn't mean a college education). I'd also say guys look for a girl that completes them in some form or another.
2006-08-03 18:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Clayton B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTY!! Really and truly, honesty. Most guys love girls who just say what they mean and mean what they say. (We are easily confused ;) But really it would be hard to define that spark that every woman has that just speaks to us and every man likes a different type of spark. That is why I say honesty, if we are already after you then all that is left is for you to just show who you really are. Would you want to end up with someone who fell for a fake version of you and in turn does not really love you. Be true to you chicka, there is a guy out there right now hunting for your spark.
2006-08-03 18:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by jinxed_me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if they're not looking for attraction or sex then I guess it's a girl's personality.
2006-08-03 18:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by koki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most guys like smart girls , and girls that depend on them , be cute around just not stuiped , be nice to everyone guys well brag on there girl and he wants them to agree she nice also be a little athletic also be honest straight forward oh yea have a plan for the future
2006-08-03 18:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by ross821s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sense of humor,the ability to understand logic.sensitive,loving caring,and loyal, honest the same most women look for in a man
2006-08-03 18:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by james j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋