2006-08-03 18:07:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he's not the one or your just not ready!
2006-08-03 18:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jill1012 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't feel one with my now hubby when we first started dating. Of course, he and I had been friends for 4 years before we dated and it was a little weird. I just was attracted to what a great guy he was, but the spark wasn't there. Unfortunately, everyone I've had a "spark" with is an a$$hole who's only after one thing *stupid sparks*. It took me a good 2 years to feel a real sexual connection to him and things have been good ever since. My secret was to read some really trashy novels/erotica to put myself in the mood and after a while, my now hubby was the only inspiration I needed. If you've only been dating your boyfriend for a little bit and he's perfect except for that one thing, give it some time. If you've been together for more than a year, you need to decide how important that is to your relationship.
2006-08-04 01:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience a womans orgasm or sexual connection starts in the brain. You have to be totally comfortable and have an open relationship with your boyfriend before sex will be good. You might have to talk about things or wait until later, there is no need to rush. This also could be a sign your subconscious is telling you, listen to it.
2006-08-04 01:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by kevin_21015 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another BF
2006-08-04 01:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the case he wont stay around for long. Start to prepare yourself for the inevitable. It is probably for the best - as you are not attracted to him anyway. But usually that is all guys really want - so, as I say, he wont hang around for long if he aint going to get any!!!
2006-08-04 01:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Pooroldpossum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything. think about the consequences unplanned babies, possible diseases, are u really ready to become sexually involved right now. How old are u? he may hit and quit
2006-08-04 01:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by Proverb 31 Woman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're 13, it's probably better that he doesn't arouse you. If you encounter further problems, try talking to him. Good luck.
2006-08-04 01:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by dugoochie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO, IS SIT DOWN WITH HIM, AND
BOTH YOU FIND OUT WHAT YOU WANT IN THE RELATIONSHIP IT COULD BE MANY REASONS THAT YOU
AND HIM ARE NOT CONNECTING.
2006-08-04 01:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a boyfriend that would love and acept you,then you would find a connection.
2006-08-04 01:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by yo-yo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest new advertureous things to do!! role play, do it someplace new, new positions, if not that then not sure!! Sorry!!
2006-08-04 01:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by bootyliciouslatina692 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are not physically attracted to your boyfriend, break up with him now.
2006-08-04 01:11:50 · answer #11 · answered by DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋