Should my ex and I get back together?

Question

My ex dumped me like 3 weeks ago because he was having some doubts about our relationship and about a lot of other things in his life (his major, group of friends, etc.). I stopped talking to him because I told him that I needed to start getting over him, that I wasnt going to spend the next few weeks sitting at home wishing he would take me back. While at first he kept telling me not to worry about the future and not to think that we'd be getting back together...he's now telling me that he has a better grasp on things and is considering getting back with me. This is what I wanted at the beginning, but now i'm not sure if it's a good idea. There were a few differences that always kind of bothered me. He was really into art and politics and I wasnt so much..he and I sometimes didnt understand each others jokes..and sometimes it was hard carrying on convos w/ him..mostly because he'd say something and i wouldnt get it, or the other way around. So should we give it another shot or not?

Answer 1

No. It sounds like he's just missing you. He needed space, but you cannot sit around and wait for him to figure it all out. And if you're not having great conversations, there's no point in going back. If you can't talk about the little stuff, how do you expect to talk about the big stuff?

Anyway, it sounds like he's just trying to feel you out. He just wants to control the situation. He wants the relationship to end on his terms, not yours. Tell him no thanks and move on to someone who's jokes you do get.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

IT SOULD LIKE YOU BOTH NEED SPACE TO FI ND WHAT
YOU WANT, AND NOW IT SOUND IIKE YOU AND THIS
YOUNG MAN NEED TO FIND OTHER PEOPLE, IF YOU
ARE NOT COMFORTABLE NOW THEN THAT MAY BE
A GOOD SIGN TO KEEP IT THE WAY IT IS,.

Answer 4

No. Talk to someone else.