I do, but my friends don't what do you think?
2006-08-03 17:36:58 · 25 answers · asked by tryingmybest 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I do, however, it is important for you to make up your own mind. The only person who has to live with your decision is you. What is right for some is not right for others. Make up your mind and don't let others change it. You have to follow your heart.
2006-08-03 17:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!
If you wait you have nothing to compare your spouse to. What if they are the worst ever? Trust me, the newness of a marriage wears off and sex is an important tool in the marriage. If one or the other doesn't like it or they suck, the other may look elsewhere to get their kicks. Sad, but true.
2006-08-04 00:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by bigbadb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't. I'm not saying go out there and spend a lot of time on your back, but I believe it is important to experience life for the living that you are doing now, not repress your experiences in oder to hold onto a future ideal that may never happen - some people don't get married.
2006-08-04 00:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me is important too because I think sex is a very special thing to share with someone very but very special. A special gift for that very loved one, that someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. And it is more secure waiting til marriage because there are lot of diseases and lot of irresponsable people who do not wear a condom when they have sex.
It is important waiting til marriage to me but I respect to those who think different from me.
2006-08-04 00:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is important to wait for sex until marriage.
Sex can be a beautiful experience. It can also be a very emotional experience. That’s why it’s best to abstain, or wait until you’re in a committed, adult relationship – like marriage.
Abstinence doesn’t mean never having sex. It just means waiting until the right time. Sex is a very intimate act and it can complicate a relationship. It can lead to hurt feelings. If you have sex with someone when you’re not ready, or because you’re pressured into it, you may feel bad. You may also wonder if your partner really cares about you. While sex is one way to show love, there are lots of other ways too, like volunteering together, or having a themed cook-out or trying a sport or outdoor exercise activity together.
Friendship and romance can’t work without respect, honesty, trust and caring. The best relationships start with a solid foundation.
Sexual Abstinence is a choice – it is your choice. If you have decided to abstain from sex until marriage and someone is pressuring you to have sex with them, explain that you have decided to wait until you are married for reasons that are important to YOU. If they continue to pressure you then they are disrespecting you and your choice.
There is a difference between love and sex and it is not necessary to have sex with someone to show them that you love or care about them. It is not right for someone to make you feel bad or say that you don’t love them because you do not want to have sex with them. If someone truly respects you and your choice they will never make you feel bad or guilty for choosing to abstain from sex.
Even if it's a boyfriend, a girlfriend, or a friend, sex of any kind without YOUR consent, is RAPE.
How Abstinence can make dating better
Abstinence can make dating better! If you abstain from sex with someone you are dating there is no need to worry about STD’s or pregnancy. Not having to worry about these issues can take a lot of stress off of a relationship.
Abstaining from sex can also help avoid the emotional complications of a sexual relationship. Having sex will undoubtedly change your relationship; it is important to consider the emotional consequences of sex.
Choosing abstinence while dating allows you to know that the person you are dating is with you for YOU. They are not just interested in having sex with you. They respect you and your choices. You will never feel used or exploited for choosing not to have sex.
Marriage has benefits
A marriage is a mutually committed relationship with many benefits. A marriage allows for emotional stability, companionship, love and trust. Marriage alleviates the worry of sexually transmitted diseases and promotes a healthy sexual relationship. Studies show that married people live even longer lives, are physically healthier and are wealthier.
2006-08-04 00:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Shyne_06 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it depends on the person. If i would hve waited with my boyfriend, then we would not have our boy now...and i could never pic my life without our 7 m old baby. but, we were in a situation where we could handle it. i say, if u want to wait, then do it. thats sooo wonderful and dont just have sex with somone for the hell of it. make sure its somone who really matters to u when the time comes.
2006-08-04 15:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by virgowiccangirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is important to make sure you are doing whats right for you and make you know whats it all about it only comes once your first time and make sure its what you want and how you want it there will be someone you want to do it with and if he or she feels the same he will wait and want to make it special so you have no after thoughts you like the day after
2006-08-04 00:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by dobby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have to, but i believe it's a personal choice. I, myself, do not plan on waiting until i'm married, but i'm also not going to go out and have sex with every girl i can find.
2006-08-04 00:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by A C ! D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why bother about others.If others jump down from high rise building will you do.
This is where the cultural values comes into our lives and the way the individual are brought up by our family morals
2006-08-04 00:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by Gamarays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get a blood test before marriage,i don't think your freinds have your best interest at heart,disease could devastate the rest of your life,people can promise you nothing will go wrong,but what does a promise matter if it's too late
2006-08-04 00:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by dale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋