I am in my 40's, & divoriced. I met a great guy on line, he is sweet, caring and loves me very much. I do love him, but he lives far far away and a guy here at home has asked me out. I want to go out and have fun. Is it wrong? I do think my b/f ( the far away guy) will ask me to marry him next visit. I will say yes, because I have never met a better guy. I have no doubt he will never cheat on me or treat me bad. ( like my ex) But I want to go out now.. I miss having a male companion to a movie or dinner. Is it wrong? Also, the last guy I dated made me have butterflies.in my stomach, but he was a cheater. my b/f now doesn't. but I know he is a good man. The guy who asked me out.. intrigues me, but I don't want to lose the good guy. What do I do?
2006-08-03 17:18:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
follow your heart and trust in your love . the grass always looks greener on the other side but more than likely its not then your the one who loses out.
2006-08-03 17:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by questions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say its cheating, your only looking to go out and have fun. you need to rethink your relationship if your having second thoughts and this guy doesnt give you "butterflies" like you say. its your choice and only you can make it because you are the one who has to live with the decisions you make in your life.. good luck to you
2006-08-04 00:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by nclorenz1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can make that choice,you know what could happen but you mayfind this newer guy to be just as good.It is a tuff decision but only you can make it.Is it worth the chance?
2006-08-04 00:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Desperado 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its not a serius relationship its not cheating
2006-08-04 00:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by joshb2k4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋