HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! My mom wont let me go on dates?

Question

I am 16 and my mom doesn't let me go on dates!!! Whatshould I do?????????

Answer 1

listen to her she is doing what is best for you.. Why would you want to date any way all guys especially that age are worried about is apiece of ***... So listen to your mom she is only trying to protect you from jerks

Answer 2

I'm 21 and at 16 I was allowed to date and I think back now and think that I was way too young. You may not want to hear this but its true. Dating and being in relationships are so complicated and even at 21 I feel like I'm still figuring things out. Trust me there is no reason to rush it. Your mother just doesn't want to see you taken advantage of or hurt because once you start dating that's what happens. Dating is not what its all cracked up to be, but that's something that you will find out for yourself. Just don't rush, you have the rest of your life. Enjoy being young. Good luck talking to your mom!

Answer 3

That sounds like my mom, she says she wont let me date till im 30 but I realize that she is just kidding around. I think your mom, like every other mom, is trying to hold onto her baby girl as long as she can until you have to be let go into the real world. I say, let her see you for who you are about to become, a grown woman, whether you want to be mature or not that your decision but dont go running off with some Bobbio or planning secret dates and going behind ur moms back. You'll loose her trust that way and it is easy to loose people's trust and takes more work to gain it back than it did before.

Answer 4

Do you show your mom that you are mature enough for dates? Are you responsibe in other areas of your life like chores, homework, money ect.? If you are a mature responsible person, then maybe sitting down in a calm manner and disscussing it with your mother may help. A disscussion is not an argument!! Suggest group outings with her, maybe she will feel more comfortable with you if you will be around friends rather than one on one with another person. If you aren't responsible with other things, then your mom has a good reason to believe that you won't be responsible with dating.

Best wishes,
Nikki

Answer 5

She has her reasons....have you been irresponsible in the past? Maybe she feels your just aren't mature enough to go on dates at this time.... I wasn't allowed to date till I was 17 years old... And i never forced my parents to let me dae. it was their decision. If you are interested in some one ask to have them over for dinner or for to watch a movie with you and your family... Let mom see you will be a good girl and respect yourself....take baby steps. She is only protecting you from hurt and heartache. And i know it is hard for you to see now, but one day you will know where she is coming form.....So start out having your boy froend over for visits....It is respectful for him and shows your maturity tho your parents... Best Of Luck

Answer 6

At first, invite your mom to go on your dates with you and him which would be better than not going out at all. Later on, she might change her mind after getting tired of going through all the time and trouble of not getting anything else done. Then, she'll let you, eventually, go on dates without her around.

Answer 7

hi 5's to your mom
you get knock up like so many immature 16 year old out there who just wanted to date and fit in an be liked / loved by some guy who they thought was "it"
at 16 you have no clue about relationships
you have no sense of self esteem
and that why the first guy you really attracted to
has you in the palm of his hand
and then he'll want sex and you give it up like an idiot
becuase you want to be accepted

Answer 8

Don't date then, respect her wishes until she eases up. Make friends with boys and girls, make sure she doesn't hear you drooling over guys or anything, treat them like friends around your Mom. Or talk to your friends in front of her as though you have no interest in guys, be casual, tell her it's jsut a group of friends going out. IF she asks specifically who after that, say the girls and a few of their guy friends they like. And when you say that you wouldn't be lying because they must like the guys for them to be friends.

Answer 9

My advice/secret.trick, is to go out with some friends for a day or two,it will so trick your mom, have a plan to make it a date.Have a change of clothes at your friends house.Stay their for the weekend,it'll work.

Answer 10

You need to talk to your mom. Explain to her that your a responsible young woman that can take care of yourself and you know what's right and wrong etc. ... I didn't get to date until I was 17.

Answer 11

if you are 16 and your mom wont let you go on dates she proubly has a very good reason why....trust is a very big issue for parents..you have to earn it...good luck..