ok, so i've hung out with my friends this whole summer, and i met this new guy. I think i like him alot, but i dont want my freinds to know..probably because i've hung out with him like 3 times.. this other guy thinks i like him,and another one of my friends, but i dont even know if the guy i like likes me, and i dont want to say anything and look stupid.. does this even make since?
2006-08-03 16:52:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LoL looks like you're right. You are confused. Tell the guy you like that you like him. Just get it over with. Either he likes you back or he doesn't. If you don't want to tell him right away, just give it some time and see if he shows any signs that he likes you in return. LIke he flirts or is shy around you (depends on the guy). Hope I have helped.
2006-08-03 16:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes sense. I went through the same problem (okay, maybe, not exactly the same, but I know what's it like to like a guy and not know if the feelings are returned.) last year. Just hung with the boy a little more and see if you really do like him and if you find you do, my advice would be to go him directly, look him in the eyes and ask him.
Two things I would avoid doing:
1) Waiting for him to say something. 'Cause guys are rarely the first ones to speak up about such things.
2) Sending a friend to ask him if he likes. 'Cause then not only will he think you are afraid to speak to him, but he may interpret the message wrong and think your friend likes him.
I hope this helps and I wish you good luck and happiness with the guy.
2006-08-03 17:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by sswba2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So basically, you're really insecure about what your friends will think if you admit that you have feelings to a guy you barely know, and some douchebag wants in your pants. Big ******* deal kid. Get over it and ask the first guy out already, and tell the other one to get lost. You women constantly analyze this **** so much, it make me wonder how the hell you ever have time for an actual relationship.
2006-08-03 16:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you should ask about this boy trouble thing later because obviously, you are too young to be talking like boys are soooooooo important. just because you like someone doesn't mean you should ask them out. its a stupid teenager thing and I understand. Right now you should try to get some good confidence and self esteem. You're not really confident in yourself. think of life this way; it doesn't matter what other's think. whats their to worry about. so what if you embarrass yourself once in a while, it'll pass you'll get over it and life will move on. Don't fret with other's opinions, because its your opinion in the end that matters the most. don't let other's, your friends, make decisions and acusations for you, let yourself decide. if you like the guy but don't know if he likes you do this. AS SIMPLE AS IT SOUNDS, JUST ASK if he's interested in you. casually ask,"hey (while you two are talking about something) what do you think of me?" whatever his answer is, if it sounds good than there's a possibility he likes you. but if he asks why, don't lie to him DON"T LIE! just say the truth. "I like you." either put in also that he's cute funny, sensetive etc. anything!! but you'll have other things, bigger things to worry about later in your life so this stuff, don't get sick from it, just chill with it. your a teenager. take it easy.
2006-08-03 17:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by teardrop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So... you've hung out with Mike only a couple times and you like him, but Pete thinks you like him... and you're worried that your friends will think you're dumb b/c you like Mike...
And what is the worst that could happen... Mike could laugh at you, Pete will get offended and mad, and your friends will call you stupid...
1) If Mike laughs at you, he's not worth your time, and you need to move on.
2) If your friends call you stupid, they're not real friends. Get better friends.
3) If Pete gets offended and mad... sux for him- you didn't like him in the first place.
Be bold, Sister- "Hey, Mike, you want to go get some ice cream?... No, Pete... I was asking MIKE, not you!.."
2006-08-03 17:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only seen him three times, why do you like him so much? And why are you afraid of what your friends think. Be straight with the guy that likes you and make it clear you don't like him like that, but I'd say to wait for the one you like. Get to know him a bit more! Best of luck!
2006-08-03 16:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by HottieMcPop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a situation somewhat like that, I like someone out of my friends group... I think that if I were you, I'd tell a friend I could trust, and talk to them about it. Don't let them change your feelings, just get a feel for their reaction and hopefully they will support you in liking this guy!
2006-08-03 17:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, you can't tell if he likes you? I think you already know he likes you. Ask him to do something, just you and him. It doesn't have to be anything romantic. You can just play video games. Try and relax around him and see what happens.
2006-08-03 17:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get to kno him....at first me and this guy hated each other but then we started to talk more and become friends and now hes my boyfriend....or just take a chance and ask him out.....what have u got to lose?
2006-08-03 16:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by abbyroad411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way to find out.
And I think you already know, but just can't bring yourself to admit it.
2006-08-03 16:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋