i just broke up with my bf cuz he kept looking at other women like i wasnt there! and i got pissed at him and smacked him on his face!!(we wer getting in the car) i explained 2 him that i dont like being played and he said that he likes 2 have 2-3 women at a time!!! he never told me this!!!! well wen i have a man, that means hes all mine! but ive been feeling bad 4 dumping him and instead of eating junk food (like ive been doing all day) wat else can i do 2 get him off my mind???
2006-08-03 16:29:58 · 35 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOO-HOO! Good for you girl! Feel proud of yourself for not backing down to what you believe in and sticking up for what you really want in a relationship. DO NOT feel bad about it what so ever. It is HIS loss that he messed around, not yours. Feel happy that you got rid of this dead weight who was bringing you down. He does not deserve to have a girl like you, so I am glad you told him to get lost for good. Break ups suck. Yes, you will probably have him on your mind for a while (this is normal), but realize there are guys out there who will respect you and treat you like you deserve to be treated. In the mean time, go out and do something for yourself like go to the spa. Get your nails done, get your hair cut, go shopping, join a gym, start hanging out with a group of friends, watch movies, find a new hobby that will keep you distracted. You will be over him, quick and sounds like you are already on the road to recovery, but the only thing that is going to heal those wounds is time.
2006-08-03 17:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stop feeling sorry about it. Get off your duff, stop stuffing yourself & look good like you've been doing & talk to somebody else! I know it's easier said than done, but you have to or you will be hugging mr pillow for a long time. You gain weight by eating junk food & it's unhealthy. If he has to have 2-3 other women, don't be one of them. You deserve better! Begin by ignoring him & look elswhere. You'll be surprised to find out that others are interested in you as well, but you can't let some guy drag you around by the nose just because you like him. Like somebody else! Don't allow yourself to be one of many, don't share, & if you can't be the only one....., next! You don't need that drama in your life. Enjoy your life, don't eat it away & miss it. Life is too short to mope around over one person when there are so many others out there to enjoy. Get a grip & get hip. Go for it!
2006-08-03 16:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by ms_purple_pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing! he isn't ready for a real relationship! Girl be strong we are all here for you! YOu should of smaked him twice! lol, just remember why u slapped him (don't ever forget it)
DOn't eat the junk food - go out with some of your girlfriends and have good time~ it will take awhile to get over him (if you liked him alot) but just remember there are alot of SWEET guys in this world that are looking for a girl like u! so just forget about the jerk! Hope everything works out for u ~i've been there done that~
And now i'm with a wonderful guy! it sucks searching through the assholes to find a good one!
2006-08-03 16:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by ~~*SexyCat*~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, men are sh**. Don't let him know he actually has you. Play the field yourself. Be busy, stay busy. Hard for me because I am divorced and he remairred and I don't care too. Having too much fun playing the men like I have.
However, looking at other women is one thing. As long as he is going home to you (which doesn't sound like he is) it is okay. Having another or 2 girls isn't the guy you want to be with anyway. You want someone who is faithful and understanding of your feelings in that regard.
Don't feel bad, get up, do something. Your ideal man will come along.
2006-08-03 16:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a good friend and vent everyone needs to talk to someone about there problems. watch TV, go for a walk, go to the gym but leave the junk food alone. 'the worst thing to do would be run out and get involved in a relationship or a one night stand.
2006-08-03 16:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Carol W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. well, you really can't blame teenage boys for looking at girls. ALL guys, regardless of their age WILL look at women because of their beauty or whatever appeal they have with them. Anyway, at least he told you that he wants to stay with more than 1 person, that way, you dumped his sorry *** before it gets worse. Sooo, aside from eating junk food...occupy yourself with A LOT of stuff. You might want to run or just keep hanging out with your girlfriends! You'll feel better in no time !
2006-08-03 16:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by kray_z_blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends always help. Call them up and go out or stay in order take out, make it a girls night. Get everything you have of him and get rid of it, either by sending it to his place or donating it to Goodwill. Change your voicemail message to say you will return everybody's call except the one coming from a loser named "Insert A$$holes Name Here". If he spent a lot of time at your place you can rearrange your place so it looks different, helps with the memories. Plan on getting somekind of makeover, hairstyle, hair color, something to make you feel different. You get the drift... you dont have to do all of these things but one or two might help with the icky feelings you aare going thru right now.
Hope it helps..
2006-08-03 16:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by Dante 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date a new guy, far away from where ur ex lives.
i agree with you, but was is a formal relationship or still in the dating phase. because if it was still in the dating phase then he doesn't have to be with just you, but if he is ur bf bf really likes like you then no he should only b with u.
and teach him to b way more discreet about looking at other women. remember looking is not cheating, acting on the looks is.
2006-08-03 16:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad for dumping him, because he wasn't a real man if he said that to you. If I were u, i would find another guy and be happy, your happiness is all that matters and if a guy can do that then hes not for you
2006-08-03 16:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by *.:marie:.* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out!!!! Go somewhere w/ your friends!!!! Take a day off just to go hang with the girls! I'm sorry your -x- bf is like that!!! Oh well, You deserve someone better than him....4get him....just tell yourseld you can do better than him!!!!!!!!!!! Their will be a special guy 4 you!! Just wait until he comes around!!!! The wait seems like forever!!! Trust me!!!....but, most of the time it happens!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-03 16:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by brookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋