I got dumped months ago for a.."friend" of mine, and now they are both together (and it's been months..) Why can't I get over it already, and how do I so I can move on with my life?
2006-08-03 16:24:27 · 5 answers · asked by thenightsky_isblack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kowing that your ex and your friend are very much committed to each other is enough for you to move on with your life. You don't deserve that guy who dumped you for that friend of yours. That was a sure sign that even if he really loved you before, he loves the other woman more. With that, believe in your heart that you deserve someone who will love you truly despite the fact that there are millions of other girls around him. A man who truly loves a woman will not ever be swayed to woo another woman in his lifetime for his heart will always belong to that woman he loves.
Go out with your trusted friends more often where the chance of your meeting other guys is great. More interaction with more men would open your heart to other love possibilities. If it does not do your heart any good to survive the hurting, divert your attention to other things and hobbies. Remember that if ever you and your ex are meant for each other, in the long run, you will find yourself in that man's arms again. If you are not, then let Destiny decide for you because Destiny and Destiny alone can work towards your meeting your Mr. Right. Good luck.
2006-08-03 16:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way. They are having fun together after he dumped you for your friend. Why would you even want to give them the satisfaction and to let them see you unhappy. He is her problem now and not yours. He's not good enough for you and it is his loss. It's hard especially if you cared about this person, but life goes on I mean they moved on right? I would sit down and make a list of all the positives and negative things about your ex boyfriend and I guarantee that the negatives will out weigh the positives. Trust Me. Go out and enjoy yourself and get some real friends who won't date your ex-boyfriends. Life's to short to worry about scum. Good luck!
2006-08-03 16:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard business, been in relationships. I wish we all could just figure out what the deal is with them. I think you should just leave him alone, and try to move on. Allow yourself some time to mourn the relationship, and you'll see how things will get better with time.
2006-08-03 16:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to come to terms with the fact that it is over. The only thing that is going to help you is time.
2006-08-03 16:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with other people. You will get over your es soon enough if you are constantly meeting other people.
2006-08-03 16:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋