I moved somewhere for a few years and gained a lot of weight while there. When I go back to my old school, will it really register how much I've gained? Even if it does, will people really care? Will they treat me differently?
2006-08-03 15:55:53 · 15 answers · asked by angry 3 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
um, no people will not notice and they wont care BECAUSE they dont think about you that much. only YOU think about you that much.
2006-08-03 15:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by realgirl768553 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be surprised at the changes you will see in your old classmates as well. Since it has been several years they may not realize right away what it is that is different about you - just be sure to be yourself and don't worry too much. What really attracts friends is someone that is fun to be around - and someone that is kind to others. There are always some mean people at school and it doesn't matter what you look like they will find a way to be mean to you - so do not pay attention to people like that. Show off your good qualities and have a great year.
2006-08-03 23:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by petlover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they will notice the weight gain ( if they really knew you while you were there the first time) How people treat you should have nothing to do with your weight -but sadly that could happen but you have to take the higher road and know that you are great for who you are and not what people think of you ..
2006-08-03 23:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by TME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course they'll notice. of course they will care. of course they will treat you differently. but that's only going to last if you allow it. weight gain makes many people change in personality because it affects self-esttem and therefore affects the way you put yourself for other people to enjoy. if you carry yourself with confidence as you did before then no amount of weight will stop old friends from once again identifying you as the person they used to know.
2006-08-03 23:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Informer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, who cares what they think...nobody is gonna remember that you gained weight a year from now anyway. keep in mind just cause something is driving you crazy doesnt mean it's going to be on the minds of everyone around you. life goes on ...heavier or not. in the grand scheme of things... who cares!
if you do then start on a healthy diet and drop the extra lbs. if that'll make you feel less self concious.
2006-08-03 23:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by douhavethepipa? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about what other people say im thick and short with a big butt. Dont worry go to school get in some activities that you like and just be cool. You will be fine just dont think about the negative things. GOOD LUCK !!!
2006-08-03 23:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people grow people dont stay the same forever and if someone is gonna treat you diffrent because you dont look the same as you did when you left then there not real friends and just ignore them if anyone dose i dont think people will noitice i mean people do change it would be really hard to stay the same size forever!
Good luck
2006-08-03 23:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in "HOW" you carry it! For real! If you act and carry yourself tall and proud, it will not matter at all how round you are!
Kids are cruel and "piss off" to them! Your in transition and changes will happen everyday, so make your move hon!
Be a great person, strong, proud and happy. It will infect them with the same or jealously..... either way~ You win!
2006-08-03 23:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah is you gained more tha 15 lbs
2006-08-03 23:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by yeah its mee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are really your friends it won't matter. And you are probably self-conscious and it probably isn't as bad as you think. I hope you enjoy being back at your new school. Just smile at everyone and be friendly!
2006-08-03 23:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they will notice, that's what people do when you go back to your school. Sorry!
2006-08-03 22:59:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋