ok guys im 5'5" age 24 weigh 265 but am told i look maybe 200. I have shoulder length med brown hair, Very dark brown eyes, and fair skin im told i have a pretty face depite the fact that im fat. The few guys I have gone to bed with seem to think im talented. I live in mercer county pensylvania and the only guys who seem to hit on me are in the fortyfive plus age bracket. My question is two parts. First Is my waistline really a significant fact when it comes to being hit by guys my own age? And second why or why not?
2006-08-03 15:51:18 · 11 answers · asked by bkwrm1982 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, it is a factor, younger guys don't seem to appreciate a girl for anything more than looks (its an immaturity thing) , older guys tend to have ore experience and they know what counts in a woman. It is easier to judge true beauty the older you are, you have seen more of it. Don't ever change.
2006-08-03 15:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, your waistline as well as all your other features, adds in to your 'being hit' factor. Everyone likes something different. Younger guys, 20 somethings, typically want the 'tight little things'. Not all of them, of course, but most of them.
Why to older age bracket guys like you...because your young and have little or no baggage. A typical 45+ age woman has kids and lots of bitter life experience.
And one of the best things about 'fat chicks'....big boobs.
2006-08-03 23:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes your waistline matters...some baby fat is probably ok, But obesety is not visually attractive. I can't tell you what my experiences have told me about why. It might sound offensive..although I wouldn't mean it to be, you might take it as an insult. It's just my experiences. If you really want to know why i think why, send me a message and I'll reply.
2006-08-03 23:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun so many girls deal with the same thing that ur going through and im onemyself i am not happy with my wight either and but yes its a very huge turnoff to any guy....thats why u have to go up to them and let them get to know u cause good guys are out there its just finding the right one and so what if they are 40 or so if they are good then keep them and dont worry just make sure that ur happy and thats all that matters and then they might make u so happy that u want to lose weight for not only urself but for them too...so good luck...i hope i helped
2006-08-03 23:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by xoxthenotebook1002xox 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"PEOPLE ARE VAIN"! But don't be crazy to think a man will only except sizes 0-7 and never give you a chance. If you want to lose weight, lose it the right way and don't lose because American society is narrow minded. A man likes you because you act lady like. a man loves a woman comfortable in her own skin, and comfortable with herself.
2006-08-03 23:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Taya Wane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all some men like women who are heavy some don't and will use you . don't give the sex out to much unless the person is special and don't worry about weight . It is whats inside that counts you will know a true love .
2006-08-03 22:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by ghostdog506 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it matters! You don't really need to ask that do you? I don't know exactly why - could be instincts telling us that fat chicks are less healthy, can't run as fast so we find the less attractive.
2006-08-03 23:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you turned on by older guys? I'm over 45 and have been hit on by younger.
2006-08-03 23:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by lost in space 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, lose the weight it is a huge turnoff.
2006-08-03 22:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
competition my dear.....a lot of sexier female in ur age bracket..
2006-08-03 22:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋