My ex-boyfriend and I split 2 mo ago after 2.5 years together, because he thinks he no longer in love with me, although he says he still loves me. Now he wants to hang out with me as friend and tells me that he is looking forward to seeing me. What is his intention? Does he really miss me?
2006-08-03 15:38:02 · 18 answers · asked by summercat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that he is prolly just hoping to have sex with you, he is lonely. I don't know him personally so I can't be sure of his intentions.
2006-08-03 15:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably can't find anyone else dumb enough (or needy enough)to put up with his crap. He can't move on and face the world where he may possibly be rejected. He knows you, that you are "safe" and knows what you will put up with. He misses that. He walked away before, who says he won't do it again? Does he really think he is the only guy in the world, that you can't find somebody who is better for you (because he can't)? Now he is saying things you want to hear and hoping you will overlook or make excuses for his past behavior. You have already seen his true colors, why question that? He admires that you have moved on, and he hasn't. So now he wants to drag you back to where he is so he won't feel left behind. Stay away from him, no matter how much he sweet-talks you. You're too smart for that.
Take care
2006-08-03 15:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously after 2 and a half years, there's still going to be an emotional attachment there, but i would think that the best thing is to just cut of the relationship completely, especially if YOU still have feelings for him, because it's kind of like preventing you from finding someone else because the guy you're in love with is still in the picture. cutting of the relationship will give you room to move on. good luck!
2006-08-03 15:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Hayley! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only natural that he should still have feelings for you after being together for so long. You can hang out with him as a friend if you want to but you must not sleep with him or he will think he can use you for sex whenever he wants. Try it and see how it goes.
2006-08-03 15:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my last ex due to the fact that we had been so distant and he failed to pay so much awareness to me in any respect. After the day we broke it off, he calls me at all times, and pays extra concentration to me then ever earlier than. Most men have no idea what they have got unless its gone. If you are ready to maneuver on, which it feels like you might be, then do it. Supply it a while, and perhaps you two can atone for matters someday sooner or later.
2016-08-09 10:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i broke up with my final ex in view that we have been so far-off and he did not pay so much awareness to me in any respect. after the day we broke it off, he calls me always, and can pay extra awareness to me then ever earlier than. so much guys have no idea what they've till its long gone. if you are competent to transport on, which it appears like you're, then do it. supply it a while, and possibly you 2 can atone for matters someday one day.
2016-08-20 23:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by shannonhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have zero sexual contact with him and really just hang out. If he's still hanging around after that, maybe he really does want to be friends. Of course the pope could be a Buddist too.
2006-08-03 15:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny Canuck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you're a sure thing so you're just his back up plan. He knows how you feel so he's just taking advantage of the situation. That way he can play the field and you too. You can do much better then him. Don't let him use you like that! Tell him to shuffle off to Buffalo!
2006-08-03 15:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kewl__Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends upon what type of man he is. If you feel that he's decent, you might consider accepting his friendship. If the truth be known, these are really better sorts of relationships, anyway. On the other hand, it could just be more of a waste of your time, when you could be moving on to someone else. You really need to weigh this carefully and speak to him honestly, if necessary.
2006-08-03 15:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, according to what he's telling you i don't think he's interested in you anymore and i think he just wants to hang around with you as a friend while he's already making out with some other girl
2006-08-03 15:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by The_Pool_Pro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋