THERE'S THIS GUY THAT I'VE KNOWN FOREVER BUT I NEVER SAW HIM AS BOYFRIEND MATERIAL. AND THIS YEAR I HAD HIM FOR A CLASS AND WE GOT CLOSER. WE TALK ON THE PHONE JUST ABOUT EVERY DAY. HE COMES TO MY HOUSE SOMETIMES, WHEN HE IS IN TOWN. WELL ANYWAYZ WHEN WE ARE ON THE PHONE WE WILL TALK ABOUT HAVING SEX AND ALL THIS OTHER STUFF. IT SEEMS LIKE HE'S SERIOUS ABOUT LIKING ME. HE STICKS UP FOR ME AND DOESN'T LET ANY GUY PUT ME DOWN. I NEED SOME ADVICE BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW IF HE IS JUST USING ME OR WHAT?
2006-08-03 15:28:02 · 9 answers · asked by YourGirl08 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would he be using you? This sounds like a nice guy. The fact that you said you never saw him as boyfriend material fits the saying that you'll find someone when you're not looking. He probably likes you, and just doesn't know how to go about telling you.
2006-08-03 15:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you arent together and is talking about sex he probably just wants sex.. exspecially if he lives out of town becaus ehe can just leave you and never come back after you have sex with him, dont let him break your heart.
2006-08-03 22:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by hott_mandi42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only way to test that out would be: try dating him. You'll never know until you try it. From the story you told me, sounds like he is interested in you. For serious or just for fun?? only you can find that out yourself. Get to know his character as a person. Is he the commitment type or just for fun type.
2006-08-03 22:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Audrey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is definitely serious. Just let friendship grow, don't push for romance. believe it or not the best marriages are built on friendship. not sex,
2006-08-03 22:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is putting in the time to visit you and spend so much time talk to you, I don't think he is playing you.
2006-08-03 22:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he is bringing up the topic of having sex, that's prolly what he wants from you.
2006-08-03 22:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE HE IS WONDERING ABOUT YOU TOO. YOU SHOULD BOTH GET TOGETHER AND SHARE NOTES, SEE IF YOU'RE DEFINITELY, ON THE SAME PAGE..
2006-08-03 22:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by PAULA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you see him as boyfriend material. only you will know that.
2006-08-03 22:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him up front what his intentions are
2006-08-03 22:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋