i met her on da internet and i seem to luv her now..plz tell me ur thoughtz..plz yahoo dont delete this post..I MEAN NO HARM.THANK YOU
2006-08-03 15:26:36 · 23 answers · asked by ppboyicewater 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wen i said we met on da internet.. i mean we actually met..so itz not like she iz my im girlfriend..thnx 4 ur input tho
2006-08-04 00:36:07 · update #1
I don't think you are necessarily too old to be friendly and even a little flirtatious. But I think you should be very, very cautious of any physical or sexual involvement (even over the Internet.)
A fourteen-year-old girl is JUST STARTING to understand her own body and sexuality, and she is absolutely not ready to be sexually active with an older boy.
If you think you can stay close and stay PG-13, you can try to take things to the next level in a few years -- say, when she is sixteen and you are nineteen. But you may also find that as you mature and graduate high school, you will be more interested in girls who are in your "life stage."
2006-08-03 15:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by llemma 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think ur too old, but since u have somewhat of a difference u should slow ur relationship. Her parents could be concerned but maybe not, so accept all their conditions. If you love her, u should sacrifice your feelings for a little while. Besides, 3 yrs isn't a big deal. My parents are like 8 yrs apart and I have a friend whos 16 and her bf is like 20 and they are in more love than people closer to their ages. Hope u have a good relationship!
2006-08-03 15:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by desigal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a parent as well, I don't think you're too old, but you do have to think about the fact that you will be 18 soon & different states have different rules. They are catching these guys trying to lure these young girls off & putting them in jail. As one of the others stated, wait til she's 18, if the love is still there, then it was meant to be. You can't totally disregard her parents because they are her guardians & it's best to respect their decisions for her at this time. Think for a minute, if you had a daughter & this was an older guy talking to her, what would you think? Or do?
2006-08-03 15:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by ms_purple_pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wasn't 14 things would be a lot lot different,I promise you. But her at 14, that is jail bait for you my friend. If she was 18 and the same age difference or anything over 18, then it wouldn't be a problem. My daughter met a guy on the Internet and have been together for over a year now and doing fine, but in one way she got lucky.
2006-08-03 15:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a mom of one and yeah ur a little to old for her. Besides aren't you worried about what people are saying... You should be looking at the older girls that have a little more to offer you. But if you really think that you love her then I would wait until she's of age. Ur getting up their and ur almost 18 and you don't want to catch a case with her you know...
2006-08-03 15:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to an all boys private school, too. You have to find what you're good at and enjoy doing and you'll be happy. Girls with whom you want to associate yourself are attracted to guys who have something to say and are kind, but strong (at least in the head). Just do what you do and it will all come. Know that many "jocks" never actually leave high school, and live those time even when they're 40. Sad, right? I see it all the time.
2016-03-26 22:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you realize, that as soon as your 18, that you will be charged with statutory rape? Your going down a slippery slope. You really need to think about trying to find someone your own age. I know 3 years doesn't seem like much, but when your talking about a 14 year old, it is! Slow it sown, cowboy, and look her up when she turns 18. By the way, judging by the way you type, you need to do a little growing up.
2006-08-03 15:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14, I would HOPE That this is NOT Single dating (couple only), and that SHE has at all times a Chaperone (for your protection and hers).
As a single parent of both a teenage boy and girl -- my worries are more for the girl than anything else. This girl is too young (in my opinion) to be exclusively dating, or dating in the 1st place. She is still a child in mind and emotions -- even though her body is maturing (and rapidly at this point).
2006-08-03 15:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too old, yes. You're considered a pedophile "in a way." Online relationships don't work man, get a real one around 16 or something or even your age. I think it's best. Parents will disapprove of an internet relationship, I don't believe they'll think it's a "right" way to meet someone.
2006-08-03 15:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a 12 yr old if she was 14 and told me she was wanting to date a 17 yr old i DO NOT think so i know what i did growing up and i will be damned if my child is gonna do it too i got pregnant for her at 15 b/c my mom didnt care about what i did and my kids will not do the same so if i were you i would becareful before you get yourself in trouble
good luck
2006-08-03 15:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by audra_at_home 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋