I got this brother who needs to break up with his GF. They togther bring our whole family to deppression. Shes a different religion and 6 years older than him if not *. How do i break them up? Ive tried tazlking to my brother
2006-08-03 15:17:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-08-03 17:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Breaking up someone's relationships is not ur job. Go 2 ur brother, giving him a brief suggestions. Just say out what's his g/f unpleasant sides( Pls make sure that what u say are true issues that she's made) Let him do the decision. Whatever is fixed, all of u have 2 accept. Keep in mind that breaking someone's relations is a bad thing.
2006-08-03 23:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by ladytibits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch Saving Silverman you'll get some good ideas (just kidding).
you may be drawing him closer to her by "trying to break them up". You and your family might try (now what I'm about to say is cruel) is ignore their behavior and decisions. Be very distant when she comes around. Focus on what you do accept and are comfortable with. People who irritate you usually love to see you sweat. If they see that not much about them matters to anyone it defeats the purpose of being so "different" and disapproved of.
2006-08-03 22:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Skypride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, If you brother wants to be with her, then he is going to. You can't not break them up or try to break them up. If you do, you might end up losing your brother over the matter. Is that worth it? Even if he does break up with her, always remember to keep your opinions to yourself, cuase they could always get back together. best of luck. Take Care! :)
2006-08-03 22:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you try to break them up the closer they will get, because it will turn into a game for them to show all of you that they are the "boss" of themselves. Until then, grin and bear it. Do your best to keep things light and simple with the family, and if he sees that you all have a "I don't care" attitude, he may change his mind.
This worked with my daughter and one of her ex's!
2006-08-03 22:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't break them up. In my opinion, you can talk till you are blue in the face, but until he is ready to leave the abusive relationship he will continue to be abused.
2006-08-04 01:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by Vicki S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his problem. The only person whose actions you control are yours. Yeah, the question is unanswerable.
2006-08-03 22:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just answered this question, therefore your question is answerable. Well, depends on the situation. Just tell him to break up!
2006-08-03 22:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answered it anyway.
Embrace them. My guess is he is trying to irk you all since you folks don't appreciate him. Since he knows he is succeeding he will keep it up. But if he knows you approve he will get bored and drop her. It's reverse psychology.
2006-08-03 22:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by O'Shea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your brother's choice not yours. Everyone has to make there own decisions. We can influence them but not live their lives
2006-08-03 22:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lilybell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't.he will not like it if he feels that his family member is inter fearing with his happiness.he will see it for himself if it is truly a bad situation.
2006-08-03 22:25:04 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋