and will marry in 6 months.i used to do mastarbation alot and i am worry if it affects sexual ability after marriage .SERIEOUS ANSWERS PLEASE
2006-08-03 15:10:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Far as I know ---
Your sexual ability (arousal, ejaculation,etc) should not be adversely affected due to masturbation.
However -
You may wish to 'show' your mate how you like to be stimulated - since you have been experimenting and learning about yourself, for awhile.
Congratulations on your marriage (to be) - Don't WORRY!!!
2006-08-03 15:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physically, there is no side effects of masturbation. However, there is such thing as chronic masturbation which basically means that masturbation is interfering with your normal daily activities. For example, you may prefer to masturbate than working or say eating. It's almost like an addiction that you have to do somehow. Other than that, you are perfectly fine. Performance-wise, I'd say you'd do okay at first. Just keep trying and you'll get better at it. Good luck and Congratulations :)
2006-08-03 15:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by kray_z_blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might be wrong, but I believe that it eventually leads to erectile dysfunction. My theory is that after Sally and her five friends beat the hell out of the veins that surround the meat for so long, it results in hard to get up issue or not lasting long enough. That is just my view of the whole thing. You can do it some time but do'nt make a recreational sport out of it.
2006-08-03 15:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt affect performance later on so dont sweat that at all. There is no downside from what I can tell and who knows maybe it will help with stamina. Congrats on the upcoming wedding. May you have a long healthy wonderful marriage.
2006-08-03 15:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by ttti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think it has any bad affects the only thing i've ever heard of was if u do it a lot it will desensitize u(your penis)..and u might not feel everything real good when having regular sex.
I don't know how true this is though just something i've heard....I don't think its bad...at least its kept u flowing...(u wouldn't want blue balls would u)I think its healthy to relieve yourself...so no i don't think there's bad side affects....although i really can't imagine a guy still being a virgin when he's thirty.....wow!
2006-08-03 15:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it too much you can irritate the organ and get an infection... also doing it too much keeps you away from other things in life.. goals and such. You may become so reliant on an orgasm the manual way that you don't get as stimulated as you would like during intercourse... recommendation is to force yourself to stop so your honeymoom will be all you want it to be for the both of you.
2006-08-03 15:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is a natural way of exploring --and enjoying-- your own sexuality without fear or risk of sexually-transmitted diseases or pregnancy. Some churches forbid it as a way of maligning sex.
Masturbation does not affect your sexual ability before, during or after marriage.
2006-08-03 16:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always believe that if you love the girl and do want to marry her....its important to test both of your sexual needs and beliefs.
If you don't like that idea, then just wait til you get married.
If you get horny, masturbate like you have been doing. Your not doing any harm!
2006-08-03 15:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by amandameibeyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it too often or too rough then you may not be able to *** naturally via sex. Ease off a bit leading up to the wedding.
2006-08-03 15:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is not a bad side to marriage. you may even enjoy sex better when you get married you are just experimenting thats all.
2006-08-03 15:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by fatmamamiraclegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋