so i met this guy two 1/2 weeks ago at my church,we talked a little and my friend told him i kinda liked him from what i knew the last day he asked her for my number, weve exchanged emails and talked every day since we met for at least 40 min or more, one day he asked me to a movie and another afternoon he also wanted me to go rock climbing, does this mean he might like me? or is he another guy who just wants to be one of my good friends?!
2006-08-03 14:30:58 · 33 answers · asked by supersweetqt11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-06 13:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. Guys don't always talk on the phone that much.
Even so, he might still want only to be your friend or someone to hang out with, as you suspect.
Only time will tell if he wants something more romantic with you, but he obviously enjoys your company.
Since he has asked you to join him to movies and rock climbing, you are certainly on his radar. Did he pay for the activities? If he did, he might consider it a date. Even if you paid your portion, he might consider it a date.
Next time you are with him, maybe you could invite him to your place for dinner one evening and see how that goes. Even conservative men don't necessarily think it's wrong for a woman to ask a man first for that kind of get-together. If it's dinner with the family, then you might want to go out of your way to let him know that it's not a "meeting the folks" kind of night, just to keep the edge off.
Instead of dinner, if you think that might cause some discomfort one way or another, how about finding something to do and then ask him if he'd like to go with you. For example, if a friend asks you over to a party and suggests you might want to bring a friend, then you might ask him to go with you to the party. If you enjoy any sports, you might ask him if he's planning to go to one of the games in school or a local professional game. That kind of thing might cost you more than you can afford, though.
The main point is to get him in a situation that might help you decide what's going on with him. Maybe he likes you as much as you like him and he's just too shy to tell you or show you.
Good luck. I hope all goes well.
2006-08-03 14:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by brightpool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think about this? if you dont know what this means then how do you ever think you will know what is up in a relationship now obvious he like s you an d is wanting to see how interested in you but if you dont react then he will just enjoy you as a friend what if he is a shy person then you might meet someone else and he is on the out but if you go ahead a break the ice to find out then well you savve yourself the despire....
2006-08-03 14:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rocco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say for sure, but it sounds like he may like you. Your friend told him that you liked him, and I hope he understood what she meant. He asked for your number and has taken you on several "dates."
Is he paying when you go out? If so, I think he's definitely interested. Guys don't pay for their friend's movie tickets.
Whatever happens, just take your time and let it happen. If it doesn't work out, be grateful to have another friend that you enjoy being around and have fun with. If he's not interested, maybe one of his friends will want to date you. A girl who can hang out with guys and have fun is really quite the catch. Trust me!
2006-08-03 14:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the man give him a chance. Be more proactive. I do not believe there is a no chemistry between a man and a woman. Friendships are rare. Make a choice if you want him for a lover or just a friend.
2006-08-05 12:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by pikapoka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he likes you. It's obvious. Tell me, would you go out of your way (and your schedule) to ask a brand new friend of the opposite sex out on a date, and then again right away if you weren't interested? But I'm sure he's still testing the waters and getting to know you so he can discover whether he really likes you as much as his initial impression. Just be you and have a night RELAXED time. The rest will play itself out.
2006-08-03 14:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mark S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a friend he would not talk to you so much, also he would not ask you out. He would be more like hey want to go to a movie with a group of guys.
2006-08-03 14:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bridget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. You were "just friends" before. Except now he's hitting on you. Believe me, I know. My boss' son was "just a friend" until he started asking me to go places with him and doing stuff. Every time we did, he wanted to go somewhere else afterwords. (Like going to a movie and the dinner.) Then my boss told me her son confessed his affections toward me to her. She told me about how he felt and his past relationships. Neither of had had a good relationship with our exes, so we weren't quite sure how to approach each other. It worked out eventually (within 2 weeks). We're going steady now.
2006-08-03 14:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by nephrysdarkwater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he likes you. I would like to tell him I liked him if it was me. I know what you mean about guys as friends, it is nice to know if it is a romance. Once I had this guy friend...and I was always wondering if he was EVER going to kiss me. He never did. I didn't really like that very much, I was always feeling confused. I didn't have a boyfriend for almost two years because I liked my friend...and he NEVER did kiss me.
2006-08-03 14:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?? He wants to be your boyfrined or husband girl!!! if he spends THAT much time with you everyday and likes spending time with you other than in a dark quiet place.. then yea he likes you A LOT and he's got enough integrity and politeness to want to get to know you and be friends with you before he asks you out... not like he hasnt already..... so yea girl he likes you, go out with the guy1!!!!
2006-08-03 14:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋