ATTENTION PLS!! I've been having a roller coaster type of relationship with my ex girlfriend. She has a bad temper. For ex, when she gets mad she bickers for hours and puts on a mean face for a few more hours after she is done arguing. Last night was the last straw. After hanging out and having a good time with her at the beach we had discussion about something and it unfortuneatly turned into an argument. I was driving while this happend. As the car was moving she threatend to jump out of the car. The door swung open in the middle of traffic. I pulled over and told her to get out. She refused. I flagged down a cop and told him what happend. She finally left my car. She just came over and said that she's willing to take my advice and take some anger management classes in order not to lose me. Should I give her a chance? Is she guilty of making empty promises or does she want to change?
2006-08-03 14:13:54 · 15 answers · asked by johnblaze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if you love her then i say you should be willing to walk down that path with her! if she is honestly gonna get help then stand by her! but, if she is just saying that to try and keep you then go! but if you do love each other at least see what happens! also, she may need to see a doctor- my husband is on some medicine to help his anger problems (the medicine is called:depokot) good luck!
2006-08-03 14:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 27⤊ 10⤋
GUILTY as charged!!!!!!!! Its going to take A LOT of work to get her over that dangerous behavior. She put her life on the line, and yours. Is that really the kind of person you want to be around?? Its good that she's willing to take your advice and take anger management classes, but then she's going to be going through an emotional roller coaster of her own. You should get out of this while you still can.
And wow. I love the title.. Report for Jury Duty..so clever. haha!!!!
2006-08-03 21:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had one just like her and the best thing I ever did is get rid of her.. We would argue about silly crap then she thought sex was a way to make up.. Then one night I went out with my friends and came home and she pulled a butcher knife on me when I was half asleep.. She would talk to herself and answer herself and roll her eyes standing in a corner. Mutha was crazy as a bed bug.. Had to 86 that b i t c h quick!!! I left the day after she pulled the knife on me. Called my friends and my brother and they came over with a couple trucks and I got the h e l l out of Dodge!!! So run my brother and don`t look back,,, Run Forrest Run!!!
2006-08-03 21:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she will not change. Your personalities clash and if you want peace in your life, you need to move on. Let her continue her mistakes with someone else. You will end up miserable in the end. That anger stems from either childhood or maybe even bi-polar disorder and even with medication, they do not change. I had a fiancee just like that and he would be OK one minute and then flip out, he was finally diagnosed with bi-polar disorder, which means run, run very, very fast
2006-08-03 21:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by chihuahuas2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a second chance. However the ball is in your court. You lay down the ground rules and the concequences if the rules are not followed. She has a choice.. either shape up or ship out. Good Luck.
2006-08-03 21:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, for heavens sakes.......Stop whining and complaining. You are what is called an Enabler! You are the problem.....not her. You are in a screwed up relationship and unless you end it and walk away.....you get what you deserve. What part of this whole thing don't you understand? No.....Sorry....she is not going to change. Stop talking to her......Stop dating her.....Stop everything with her.....then your life will get better. You make the choices, pal.
2006-08-03 21:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you hope the anger management helps and when she is done give you a call but she needs to change first
call her and see how she is doing if she calls you be a friend but move on she needs to work on herself right now and she needs to do it for her not to keep you
2006-08-03 21:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said she will do something about it then give her a chance because shes willing to change.
2006-08-03 21:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by kRiS aKa: PaRtY GuRl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance,maybe some counseling will do her good.
2006-08-03 21:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by scott m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you given her a chance yet?
2006-08-03 21:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a physco chick or a suicide blond,its your life,your the one who is going to have to put up with her not me
2006-08-03 21:17:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋