Its so routine and I don't know what to do? Any advice would be helpful? I mean is it possible that we arent sexually compatible?
2006-08-03 14:02:45 · 15 answers · asked by BigBrownEyez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If just the thought of fu*kin your boyfriend doesn't turn you on, or makes you want to become a sexual beast. Then you have the wrong boyfriend. You shouldn't have to try tricks and sh!t, just to make fu*kin your boyfriend an enjoyable experience. You either want to fu*k the sh!t out of him or you don't.
2006-08-03 14:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by SandMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but no matter who you're with, its going to be boring after a while. That's just the bottom line. Women go thru so many different stages in life, and in each stage, their sexual needs and desires may change. Getting kinkier isn't necessarily the best idea either, because, as someone else suggested, you'll get bored of that - or the drama of that will create more problems than you were just bored.
I think you can use your imagination to make things more interesting, but the bottom line is - what is it that you expect from sex? TV sex? Porn sex? Its usually closer to a mutual pelvic sneeze.
2006-08-03 21:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by mirmirand_10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, sleep with me instead? Seriously, one of you needs to take control - if he isn't, you should! Lay him on his back and ride. Position yourself doggy style while he's undressing - he'll get the point! Bring toys into the bedroom, while he's getting ready, break out the new toy and you get ready too! Soooooo many ways to make thing more interesting! Just be verbal with him about your needs! If you're too kinky for him, then maybe you aren't sexually compatible? Then you should try me instead. Hahaha. Good luck!
2006-08-03 21:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is entirely possible that you are sexually incompatible. In order to test this theory tell him how you feel then tell him what you like. Let's face it men learn from porn at a young age and don't deviate from that. Men will use the same moves they used in HS and convince themselves that women love it. You already proved this is not the case. If he is unwilling or unable to perform to your liking then you need to find another boyfriend
2006-08-03 21:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boyfriend? sex with your boyfriend? girl, right there is your problem...sex with your boyfriend! the reason it is boring is because what you should have done was wait for your marriage night...i dont know how old you are and i dont care. the bible was written for all and every age and it diliberatly says...DO NOT HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE...life would have more meaning to it for you. do you ever feel like your worthless sometimes and that you have no meaning and no purpose in life? that you dont have anything to look forward to in the near future...it is because you have spoiled it.
you need to rethink your actions and if you made a wrong committment with the wrong person...
2006-08-03 21:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by i will be your friend! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop having sex for a while and don't have it so frequently. Make him and yourself wait. duhh. or make him wait until he takes you out on a romantic evening or something. That's what supposed to happen to earn sex isn't it?
that's why it's so boring now. if you get into 3somes and sex toys and other stuff you'll eventually get bored of that too
2006-08-03 21:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spice it up, buy some handcuffs and some sex toys
2006-08-03 21:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try different positions. experiment with other things also.
2006-08-03 21:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by supra02@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for a 3some?
2006-08-03 21:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats possible, try some one new
2006-08-03 21:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋