how do you move on w/ your life after a break up w/ a long time relationship?

Answer 1

Focusing on the soul mate relationship in particular, you need to think it would be better to try closing off your heart for awhile.

But there comes a time in one’s life when it’s often necessary to take a step back and find out who you are and what you want out of life.*

By taking a time-out and examining yourself closely, you’ll hopefully discover:

1) The only person who can make you happy is yourself.

2) In order to be the person someone would want to love, you have to love yourself first .

3) Being a queen instead of a pawn guarantees self-confidence and self-satisfaction.

4) Self-love comes first and relationships naturally follow.

5) You are queen of your own destiny.

When you have had time to regroup, you discover things about yourself that you might have been ignoring, and it’s a perfect time to fix those things that are making you unhappy.

The irony of this is that this is when your soul mate does appear—when you least expect it!

So if your relationship did not work out maybe your prince is still out there waiting on you elsewhere.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Got to get back to dating. After ending an eight year relationship with my High School sweetheart, I wasn't really over her till I feel in love again. I casually dated a bunch of girls for a couple of years but the old girl was never off my mind. When I finally met that someone special, I never thought of the ex-girlfriend the same.

Interestingly, I ran into the ex-girlfriend recently and she definitely isn't over me. She asked why; it had been so long. I told her the same as above. It might take you a long time too, but you got to keep trying.

Answer 4

I know I give this advice to alot of people but it really helps.
I'm sorry for your break up, I might be going through the same thing in a little while...I know must really suck.
But alas, theres hope, look for love in other places like in the CHURCH. Find friends and hobbies that interest you, if your in school occupy yourself in your studies. You can always casually date to get your mind of him, of course no one can replace him, but sometimes you'll be surprised to see how many great guys come your way. Keep a journal to express all your feelings, let everything out and you will feel lighter. Most of all, use your good friends to help you get by, go out with them and also they will probably will be a shoulder for you to lean on.

Good Luck :o)

Answer 5

Will it's like i don't have an answer for that because its like when i go through something with my boyfriend and it's a feeling that i just want to leave him but it's like i don't know how to tell him it's over can u help me with this.but i guess it will take awhile for you to move on and its going to hurt but you have to tell your self that it was for a good reason and you have to be strong and trust that you will find someone better and just give your self some time to heal OK

Answer 6

Same way you move on after someone dies. Talk to friends, go to work, read a book, go to the movies, cry a little, go on vacation. Things will get better eventually. That is why they say "Life is a rollercoaster". Many have been on it.

Answer 7

Play it day by day i was married for 12 years and just recently got a divirce well a year ago it will take awhile but u need friends. u can talk to me anytime. I had two kids involved which i have custody of and it aint easy write me at [e-mail]

Answer 8

Get rid of the old and bring in the new. Keep busy with self improvement. Think positive about your future and go for the gold...

Answer 9

lots of friends, lots of time knowing that it's going to take some time. don't rush into another relationship. because of issues, I know someone who has been married 5 times. don't bring last relationship into the next one. grab some space.

Answer 10

You just have to, because you don't really have a choice. Time will take care of the rest and one day you will find someone better!!!