I love to be Loved-I Love being in Love and now that I am 45 I see the chance to find someone to Love slipping away-I have to reconstruct my whole life because I was convicted of a Domestic Violence Assault when actually I was the victim and she had been arrested 3 time before for beating on me but the last time the female officer arrested me because I had been drinking-and my ex knew this and while I was pleading "Not Guilty"-and held on $30K bail-my apartment and everything I owned was stolen by The landlord legally because the courts awarded them an eviction. I am exceptionally GoodLQQKing and have never been married-I have had one child by this liar that tried to force me to marry her by telling me to trust her and remove the condom and so my son was born 01-01-01-but then she said I was abusive and alcoholic and that's how I ended up going to jail-So now I don't even have the confidence to approach ladies because "What do I really have to offer (Except GQQDlooking genes and kids?
2006-08-03 13:56:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well number one. instead of moaning about it, pick yourself up and get started on making a goal you can achieve. I am sure you will find that you still have a lot to offer antoher person.
I was homeless for nearly a year after being laid of a job. It does no good to blame anyone or anything. You need to get your priorities straight and go from there. If you are drinking you need to stop, go to the County and start using their resources. They have places you can go to learn skills and places to help you find work. It is a job in itself to get back on your feet but it can be done if you do the work and want it bad enough.
Once all that is taken care of then you can begin to start a relationship because you will have something to offer another.
Being homeless humbles you in ways you can't imagine. You appreciate everything a heck of a lot more and you can come away from it and know exactly what others are going through, you can even help out some of them along the way. It is truly an experience I will never forget.
2006-08-03 14:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by ladyw0llf 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
People can be cruel , especially if they have never experienced heartache , injustice and pain .Society looks only at the car you drive and the tag on your clothes and how big of house you live in. There are many people homeless in the U.S. and if we used the money from this war we could help with the homeless and the health care system. The worst part is you were forced to bring a child in the world and then once here you could not even have the chance to live your responsibility to him. We need to be more of an understanding society and stop judging people on their hard luck until we walk in their shoes.The sick part is you cannot even help the homeless in Vegas now for fear it will make the rich not want to come there to blow big bucks .I think Vegas has turned into an adult show place of filth from what it started out as, a family place.
2006-08-04 01:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by ₦âħí»€G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe what you need the most is an appointment with a counsellor to find out exactly what your problem is and what to do about it. I am danged sure that this isn't the place you will get the advice you need to reconstruct your life. But then I guess if you are busy looking for women to sympathize with you , then maybe this place and that story will do it. Actually, if you are broke and homeless,where did you come up with the computer and the time to sit on it and spin the web?
2006-08-03 21:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couple things.
1.Get low income apartment
2. get a job and start saving money.
3.don't look for people to be with, just be friends until you know them/her.
4.find your self first, and get your life straighted up and stop drinking it is not good for you
2006-08-03 21:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by christinadc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wonder you don't have a girlfriend, you talk way too much, and you say your broke and homeless but, you have a computer? I think your just nuts, you need psychiatric help not a girlfriend
2006-08-03 21:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you got dealt a bad hand just hang in there and someone will come along
2006-08-03 21:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You need help. You just told your whole life. Ok. well. Don't give up. You need to watch "what the bleep do we know" It will help you! Helped me!
2006-08-03 21:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by youngan'curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a homeless girlfriend.
2006-08-03 21:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn gay!
men are great
2006-08-03 21:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by jaye_121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋