2006-08-03 13:54:27 · 26 answers · asked by anthony b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
cant afford to feed them then dont breed them
2006-08-03 13:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl_mandy82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about whether or not they are really ready to be parents and take on the HUGE responsibility of being a parent and looking after a baby. They'll need to have enough money to buy things like clothes, nappies/diapers, a cot, a baby monitor, a cot and all the stuff needed but they'll also still need that extra money to survive themselves and buy food for themselves too.
I would actually suggest they wait just a little bit longer before they actually do this but at least until they're both 16 as a precaution since your brother could get into serious trouble if he/they have sex underage and he could be arrested for rape and therefore have a criminal record which wouldn't help him get a job in the employer carried out Criminal Record Checks on potential candidates for a job since the 'rape' entry wouldn't make your brother seem/look like the perfect candidate.
You should ask this question at http://www.q2a.co.uk since they always provide good responses that really do help.
Still, a good question and I'm sure others may find this question helpful.
Good luck.
:-)
2006-08-03 21:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by The Techie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them:
They can't financially afford raising a baby.
They will ruin each other's lives.
She might die as a result of giving birth so young.
He might her after the baby is born.
They need to wait until they are older and married before having any kids so that they can have a stable family.
They will not be able to pursue their ideal careers while raising/financially supporting a child.
Children born of young parents can have serious developmental problems, and can even die.
Good luck! And don't you get into that kind of situation.
2006-08-03 21:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a friend or relative who have a really really bratty spoiled baby and have them both goes to that person house and try to deal with the baby for a couple days (with the parents there of course). I bet they both will be crying and begging to go home after a couple hours.
bonus point; wake them up in middle of the night few time every nights and make them do some chores.
2006-08-03 22:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that they are crazy to even think about a child. If she wants to play "mommy" tell her to go and babysit. I think that you should explain to them the responsibilities of having a baby. First they have to eat and wear diapers......... That takes money and I doubt they work. Second, consider their lives over for the next 18 years because a baby takes up all your time and money. If your brother is actually going to be with a girl that wants to have a baby at 15 he needs to give his head a shake. What he should want is a young lady that wants to go to school and do something with her future. Good Luck to all of you !
2006-08-03 21:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by smorgan1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till your older so that you can give your baby everything he/she needs or wants...babies are expensive and time consuming youll only be hurting the baby if you have it now bc it wont have a proper home (thats what I would say)
2006-08-03 20:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sammie Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but dem is jus 2 young 2 b tinking bout aving babies,wotz der rush looking after a baby is a tuff job they should tink about that a baby is 4 life not just b cause u feel u want one any ways dem is aving illegal ting an ting hu!
2006-08-03 21:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by lloydpaul2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For ur bro to keep his dick in his trousers and buy her a plug or something! they would have split up within the next few weeks, then who will want the baby?
2006-08-03 20:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by splight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try and get her a job of miding kids that are anreal handful mite change her mind on how she would cope. explain the cost and welfare isnt always going to be there, too make her watch child birthing videos she mite see the pain of it isnt something she wants to experience
2006-08-03 21:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by sugarpantsangel21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they both have the same command of the English language as you do . then no
What chance does the poor baby have in life?
2006-08-03 20:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by BackMan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it! they are too young and need to stay in school and get a good education so they can get a good job and support a baby. tell your parents what they are planning I bet they put an end to it.
2006-08-03 21:00:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋