I live with my parents I want to move out but i dont have any moeny. My parents are a little controling over me which drives me crazy.
2006-08-03 13:41:05 · 42 answers · asked by Amber W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i forgot to add that i do have a job but i dont make enough to pay rent somewhere
2006-08-03 14:03:03 · update #1
A. Get a job. B. Join the Military.
2006-08-03 13:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by wrf3k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be surprised how much you control their lives.
If you put yourself in their place, it might be a little easier on you.
Until you get a job and do have some money, it's out of the question. But here's the thing: you can start acting as though you are a independent roommate. Share the chores, give them some private space, be careful with their things, don't leave messes, etc, etc. In other words, pretend it's YOUR house and somebody else is messing it up or taking advantage of your generosity. Treat them the way you would want to be treated if THEY lived with YOU. It will be great training for the day when you have just enough money to get an apartment with a friend.
2006-08-03 13:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a job? Jobs are good. When we have them we make money, and if we want something really, really bad, we can save the money so we can get what we want.
Do you parents charge you rent? Do they make you pay for your own food? If not, you get to save ALL your money against moving out. If not, they have a right to have control over your life, because they are supporting you.
2006-08-03 13:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by pg1955 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... First of all, make a line of respect around yourself and do not let anyone cross it. Second, get a job and start saving money. Third, find a friend, or get some friends to rent a place. Or, find a place that is already rented, but they need a new roommate. I just did that for a friend of mine who's parents were doing the same thing.
good luck.
remember; think, act. Don't let the negativity get you down.
2006-08-03 13:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by punkdrunkard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no fun moving out on your own. You will face a lot of challenges which I believe you are certainly not ready for, especially if you are still studying.
Most friend's family would not welcome that if you are staying with them. And you don't feel easy as well.
If you rent a room, you need to sign documents be liable if you don't pay rent.
If your parents are controlling you over things that you do, like gaming etc.. (esp gaming, please go read today's Straits Time on Virtual gaming, side column, 1st page) it's mostly for good reasons.. I don't think any parent would want to get into any mess with their kids too.
If you don't still can't accept that they meant you well. Then, tolerate. This is time where you really still need to rely on them.
The only best solution is to stay put.
2006-08-03 13:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Pencil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you been to college yet!! Maybe you could go to college which would make them pay for it so for a little while your out of there hair but while your in college you can get a part time job to save up for a house or an apartment and when your out of college however much else you need you can get a loan and you will have your own place!!!
2006-08-03 13:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by LiveLifeTheWayYouWish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 21:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you need to do is find a job if you dont already have one and just start saving as much as you can. Until you get enough to support yourself and have enough extra for emergencies. Then find a place that is affordable that you can maintain on your income. You may not have alot of extra money but atleast you will have your freedom to be an adult.
2006-08-03 13:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough! I know you wont like what I am going to say,but if its "tolerable"stick it out.Maybe get a job,or if you have one,try to add a part time job.Save as much as you can,and maybe find someone(a friend)to move in with,and share costs.In the meantime,enjoy the fact that they carry most of the burden of the bills,and you can have a secure place to be.
2006-08-03 13:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sherry H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job then you will have some money. Then your parents can't be as controlling over you.
2006-08-03 13:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Hi T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋