lost? seriously I think I should stop but I just don't know? My bf doesn't like that I ask questions of my relationship to others or online. He says it makes him look bad to people he doesn't even know or I feel like if it shouldn't be displayed my problems but I don't know what to do? Why do I feel like this?
2006-08-03 13:30:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Decide what your expectations of your bf are. Then decide if he is meeting those expectations. If not, leave the relative security of a known relationship and look for a new one. One that does meet your expectations. It's OK to have wants and needs of your own and you will be adrift until you develop enough spine to insist on them in your relationship. Remember, a relationship is a two-way street, not your way, not his way, but a give-and-take from each of you.
Best of luck to you.
2006-08-03 13:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Hums2oldies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young and very insecure. But I see that you have answered some questions and got some best answers. So at least you are sharing, and that's good. Bet you felt good when you got those best answers.
So instead of asking someone else, a question, ask yourself.
If this was happening to some other person, how would you answer it. Think carefully, and see what you come up with.
Then post the question, on here, and see the answers you get back. Are they as good as yours, do they agree with yur answers.
That will give you a good idea, just how well you stack up against others. Then when you have a question, more often than not, you can answer it yourself.
A few more best answers under your belt, should boost your ego.
2006-08-03 20:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking questions about relationships to strangers on yahoo.answers isn't much different than going out to your local bar and telling all your problems to a bartender. However, on the computer there is less chance of you getting picked up by a great looking guy and then wanting to leave your boyfriend who doesn't understand why you like to vent and get feedback about relationship problems. :-)
2006-08-03 20:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because everyone likes the approval of someone else the sense that other people are paying attention to your life? I'm not trying to say that in a bad way >_> and you're probably just curious? =D
2006-08-03 20:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mu3lio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with looking for advice no matter where the resource is from. I'm sure he asks for advice from others when he's stuck in a situation. Whats important is that you helpful advice.
2006-08-03 20:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by johnblaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotionally insecure comes to mind.
2006-08-03 20:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋