it's bad that I have sexual fantasies of my boyfriend (as if that's all I think about) but I don't care about that at all in reality, I care about him and him being happy so why do I feel guilty everytime I imagine those fantasies and touch myself? Why the guilt?!
2006-08-03 13:27:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Probably something in your upbringing! Hugs! Von!
2006-08-03 15:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by bry7josh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were raised to believe that sex without marriage is bad? Or, that sex is bad/dirty/shameful? Relax and give yourself a break! You are very normal and fantasizing about your boyfriend is a healthy outlet. If you feel comfortable enough, tell him about it. My fiance' loves to hear about the fantasies I have about us when I'm touching myself....
2006-08-03 20:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you prbably feel guilt because you know if he found out he would think ur wierd..
but thats only becuz ur relationship is probably not open to sex. but i guess theres no harm.. in what your doing lol
so..stop feeling guilty
2006-08-03 20:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeling guilty.
2006-08-03 20:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by pet stylist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your mom and dad bout da birds and da bees,,,,and touching your self is fine but i wouldnt talk about it with the world ,,unless thats what you really want silly
2006-08-03 20:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by roezbuddz77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋