i keep leaving messages on my exs cell and he wont respond. wat should i do? i just want to talk to him see how he is doing? scince hes in the army and all. my girlfriends tell me to not be doin too much and say i should just go out and have the best time without him on my mind. no other guy can make me feel like he did.
2006-08-03 13:25:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man..i know exactly how u feel about this one...it sucks that u get no answer and that he doesn't return ur phone calls..did the relationship end bad? is he really busy? he can never be to busy to just give u that phone call that u deserve just to see how YOU are doing...he's a jerk and u deserve way better...trust me just move on, he's not worth it gurl...
2006-08-03 13:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by RedBoNe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop telling yourself you cant do better, because then you are going to be in that state of mind forever. Another thing you need to stop doing is comparing other guys to your ex because all that is doing is leaving room for feelings to grow stronger. Your right no one can make you feel the way he made you feel people work in different ways so your not going to get the same treatment in every relationship. He is his own person just like the next guy. and if he made you feel so good about your self ask yourself this why is he not returning any of your phone calls?( because a guy who cares would) I'm not being hard on you but i really think you should consider the advice your girls are giving you. Trust you would be happy at the end( We all go through this but that's what makes us stronger and wiser) Good luck
2006-08-03 13:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by yaya t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you and why are you even giving this guy the time of day? I know you care about him, but he must be your ex for a reason, right? You need to go and hang out with your family & friends, and not let some guy get you down. Trust me, I have been in the EXACT same situation before. Luckily, I met someone who completely made me forget about the jerk of an ex, I'd sugest you go out and have fun and meet new guys who will give you the respect you know you deserve
2006-08-03 13:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems so leave at the maximum 2 messages and if he doesn't respond it means he doesn't want to talk. He is Ur ex u have to remember that don't make him feel u really desperately want him back. Good luck!
2006-08-03 13:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you should get over him he's playing you for his fool. If he really loves you he'll come back to you but in the mean time get busy with work or school. Don't bother him when he starts realizing that you're not calling him no more he's going to start worrying why you not calling him anymore. if he doesn't then it wasn't meant to be and move on. Good luck!
2006-08-03 13:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Broken hearted in the bronx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exs cell? u mean is he ur ex?? okay, if he is ur ex..then i don't know why you should know on how is he doing when he is not responding to you.its clear that he is not interested to talk to you. but on the other hand, its obvious that you have a soft corner for him.yea,there are times when you can't forget someone as they seem to be special, and no matter how much they hurt you, you just don't learn anything from it.but girl, you have to move on. if he comes back,its yours..if not, have your life..w/o him
2006-08-03 13:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being a veteran myself, l can say its very hard and miserable being away from your loved one when your in the military, plus the fact that he is serving his country and is doing it for you.so treat him with respect, he deserves it.and allot of times in the military, your told not to carry or use your cell ph.and there are only certain times that your aloud to use them, if at all.
2006-08-03 13:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes not getting back to you, then you should back off a little. if he wanted to talk to you he'd get back to u. he will eventually. your friends are right, you should go out and have fun, try to forget about him. i know it'll be hard but if hes in the army, you wont be getting back with him anytime soon.
2006-08-03 13:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by ♥SexylOve16♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex-boyfriend, ex-husband, ex-what? Whatever it is, he probably is feeling a tad hurt and is not up for more. Give him some space before you try to contact him again.
2006-08-03 13:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Hums2oldies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little too familiar! Any way let it go! He's obviously not trying to include you in his life. He's moved on so should you!
2006-08-03 13:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by Nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋