Should I even bother?

Question

My ex bf and I are somewhat close. Lately we have not really talked and when we do talk we usually end up arguing. His grandmother died yesterday and I was wondering if its appropriate to send him a condolence card or not?

Answer 1

It not like yall r enemies or something. so yea I feel like u should send him a condolence card and talk 2 him n keep him company fa da time being cuz he is goin through a hard time in his life rite now cuz grandmothers r like mothers if u lose dem den u basically feel like u have lost yo own life its hard n if he want anyone 2 comfort him n talk 2 him its u. regardless if u both argue he really need u now. so yes u should reall talk 2 him n show yo love n respect.

Answer 2

You should definitely send him a condolence card. You don't have to talk or argue to do that, it's simply an empathic gesture. Since he's your ex, just treat him as you would any friend.

Answer 3

Well if you have talked to him lately, I will tell him your sorry for his lose, I won't send him a card because a. cards don't always make that kind of situation any better and b. if you send him a card he may get the idea that you don't really want to talk to him. So I would make a point to either call him or when you run into him to tell him that you are sorry for his lose.

Answer 4

condolences are always appropriate in the case of lost of family member.

Answer 5

yes, of course, send him a card. you said you are close, friends argue, he needs support, you would do that for a girlfriend, wouldn't you?

Answer 6

YES.Send the card, show you are a mature caring person.

Answer 7

maybe u should comfort him