So, I met this girl about a 2 weeks ago. I fell for her almost immidiately. Like a dumbass I sent her flowers. She thanked me saying it "made her day" blah blah.
She asked me why I sent them and all I said was that I was 'reatarded' and I was'nt sure why ! A few days later some D-bag did the same thing and sent her flowers.
When I found out I was pretty pissed but decided that she was way outta my league and the other guy prolly deserved her. Like a complete 'retard" i sent her
more flowers, I was really pissed at myself for sending her more flowers so I called her and told her that my friends were trying to play a prank on me and used my
debit card to buy flowers and that I was really sorry. Ever since then we meet (once a day max) and she has always been really nice, made small conversationshas waved etc.
Then about 2 days she went "mental" and started ignoring me. I work with her roomate and because all this was driving me nuts I decided to ask her to help me.
2006-08-03 13:22:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So the next night her roomate asked her if she liked the flowers from me. She replied saying that the flowers were not from me and that my freinds had bought them using my money.
(The story I told her). Her roomate was unaware of this white lie and told her the truth. That I had actually bougth her the flowers but was too chiken to tell her so.
So she was like "omg, that makes me feel so much better, thats so sweet". Then she added that she felt sorry for the other dbag that sent her flowers because she had to send him an email
saying she was not looking for a relationship as she was too busy. I met her today again and it was a simple hi/bye. Is she pissed because i lied/ becsuse iam a pussy?
I have never been so confused in my life. Does she like me? How come I have not got an email saying she is too busy for a realatioship?
2006-08-03 13:23:06 · update #1
does it realy matter. as long as you like and care for her its all good. she will see that if she hasent already.
2006-08-03 13:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ray S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. From what I understand and from what I know so far, she likes you. The reason that she didn't send you an email saying that she wasn't looking for a relationship is because she actually is. She sent it to that other guy because she didn't want to find it with him. Anyways, you need to call her and tell her how you feel and that you two need to get together some time (It was really hard for me when I was in a similar situation...). Finally, tell her that you actually sent her the flowers and that the reason that you lied is because you really liked her and that you were too nervous to tell her the truth (and maybe that you were trying to one-up that other d-bag). Good luck, man!
2006-08-03 13:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay buddy.. whenever you meet a girl and want to date her.. the first mistake is acting wimpy and call her everyday, send her flowers frequently, etc etc.. one way to tell if a girl likes you is by eye contact. IF you and this girl have good eye contact while in the same room and while you're talking then thats a good sign. However, one thing a lot of women do not like is a guy that calls them everyday and basically obsesses about her day and night. Usually once a girl realizes that that is the case they usually start to ignore a guy. So this might have happened to you. I think sending her flowers was a good idea at first but you shouldve confessed to her that it was your idea. Girls like a guy that is confident but not cocky, so next time you see this girl, make good eye contact, talk to her casually (When you talk to her, ask her questions about herself and get to know her interests and such.. once you know those ask her about her interests.. dont speak too much about yourself and if you do.. give a short and incomplete answer leaving her wondering)
So in conclusion
1) Dont act wimpy and attached, show this girl you are independent and your own type of person
2) Call every 3-4 days (Not every day)
3) Make good eye contact and present a confident approach about yourself to her, make sure she knows that you are confident in your abilities and personality
4) Ask her out on a date when you feel the time is right and if she blows you off then you will finally know whether she likes you or not
IF she does blow you off or reject you, move on and find someone else
If you need me to explain any of this any further just message me or something
2006-08-03 13:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by evilcheerioman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor guy... I m a girl with awesome advice... I think she does like you.. she knows you are communicating through the roomate.. in her way she was telling you.. she told the D *** to hit the road.. thats how girls work WE ARE NEVER STRAIGHT FORWARD.. we like to make men work .. but I f they try to hard we lose interest screwy but true. What is really driving you nuts if wondering what she is thinking so suck it up... act confident and say hey.. you wanna go out sometime.. worst thing that happens is she says no.. then you'll know and you wont be going crazy anymore
2006-08-03 14:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by kendalmarketing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo your reading to much into this you are driving me crazy with this story. Look you did all of this and she knows everything know and still won't give you the time day, move on she don't want you either. You will find plenty of other people to have a crush on, and don't send anymore flowers. It's her lost.
2006-08-03 13:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by reemdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously likes you as much as you like her. You need to quit doubting this and quit playing around. You have her caught already, don't lose her again. Just email her and tell her how you feel and ask her to go out. It will be a sweet ending I promise you, and one more thing, smile at her the next time you pass her.
2006-08-03 13:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Hi T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you, but that your dishonesty has made her question your motives with her. You need to come clean with her and apologize. Just let her know that you are really overwhelmed because you really like her and aren't quite sure how to handle it. Let her know that you understand that she is very busy and that you don't want to rush her or put pressure on her. Then send her flowers and say "These are from me because I like you and wanted you to have something that might make you smile."
2006-08-03 13:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously likes you(wow that sounded like it was from a soap opera) and your first mistake was telling her you didnt send the flowers..lol but the past is past so i think that you should send her flowers and tell her that you sent the ones before and that youre sorry for lying
she prolly told the other guy that she was busy cuz she likes you
2006-08-03 13:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup shes mad your cickened out and lied, its understanding to feel that way. Anyway i think you should cough up the truth tell her face to face, then at the right moment, speak your feeling. if everything goes well you could score a date with her. just build up your confidance and tell her, i think its pretty fair to say she likes you, only cause you havnt gotten the 'Email of doom'.
2006-08-03 13:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she does like you...so she has said it was sweet. So well she likes you and doesn't like the other guys and told them she was too busy for them...she wants you...that is why she never told you.
2006-08-03 13:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably likes u so ask her out and apologize to her for not telling her the truth.
2006-08-03 13:28:02 · answer #11 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋