Why do people who are down and out need to blame someone for their own loser life?

Question

This results in Hate, and mistreatment of others.

Answer 1

MOST PEOPLE ARE ONLY A PAY CHECK AWAY FROM BEING HOMELESS.

Speaking from personal experience,it is not that we really blame anyone.We have become victims of our past.Me personally came from a very abusive home:both physically and mentally.My father used a leather belt or a cattle prod to discipline me.Mother would say she never wanted me and she said she use to beat her stomach to get rid of me.

I have had 2 failed marriages and lost custody of my kids b/c my second husband was abusive.

It seems a dark cloud follows me.I know that I make my life what it is suppose to be,but it seems when things are going good,something happens that shatters it.

I don't think people really blame others.Thay are disappointed in how their lives have turned out.And sometimes it just doesn't seem fair that others are able to acheive what we haven't.

People look down on those who are down and out.They think we a scum or something with no desire to improve thier lives.I am a LPN and still am "down and out".I functioned fairly well until 3 years ago when mental illness made me into a"failure".I have been approved for disability,but my life will never be the same again.I suffer from 7 disorders,but there are 2 that is directly linked to my past--PTSD-Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome,and Major Depression.

I really do not know your take on this,,just the question you have asked.But not all people that are down and out blames others,except in my case--I blame my parents and 2nd husband.I do not blame strangers,as they do not know me.

Answer 2

Well did you ever think that maybe it aint there falt that there down and out? I am Not down and out but I am getting to that point. I worked for 30 years on cars. Well about 4 years ago I got sick and now i can't work anymore. I can't do anything even have sex I can't do it!! I can't even mow my lawn with a riding lawn mower. I have to wear diapers Because I can't tell when I am peeing..And this started 4 years ago and Ive been trying ever sence to get my disability. But I still ain't got it. I payed it in but I can't seem to get it. Now you tell me what I should do sence you are such a Know it all.!! What should i do!! Do you think I am a loser because I get sick. Befor I got sick I made around $80,000 a year. NOW Nothing!! I had some money put up but after 4 years it's all but gone..And I really dont like you calling me a loser over something i can't help. Did you ever stop to think what would happen of you was to get real Sick!! Would you think it was a BIG Joke then asshole!! SO the next time you think you are better than someone else you better stop and look at your own self and think god you are not down and out. Because some day it could happen to YOU!! And guess what else Numb-Skull "YOU" heard it here first from a REAL Nutcase!!""NUT'S""..PS ..did i win...did i win...did i win????

Answer 3

Because those people wouldn't be so depressed, if it wasn't for something that someone to be blamed did or said. If you're offended by and betrayed by someone, and therefore really angry with someone, would you not consider suicide and blame that someone in your suicide note? Do you really know how those down and out people are, or were, before they were down and out?

Answer 4

because it is much easier to blame someone else for problems rather then facing the truth, the truth hurts,. I know because I have been going to therapy for 8 weeks now and my sister is so pissed off at me for it. she acts like I am weak and she is strong and I am the reason she is so miserable, when we all know you are responsible for your own woes. no matter what. but thats it.she actually called me at 2 am bawling to me asking me why I hate her so much , when I dont hate her and she knows I dont, its just easier for her to pretend I hate her, see if she can believe I hate her then she dosent have to face the real issues,. like why does she hate herself? but one thing I do know all the love in the world wont help her until she chooses to help herself, my guess she never ever will.

Answer 5

because no one takes responsibilt for their own actions any more. It's always somebody elses fault.