2006-08-03 13:05:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get you as$ in church and pray for forgivness. sorry to say but hunny he used you. and stop having sex you are way to f u c king young to have sex. sex is a big responcibility and shoulds be though about first b4 doing it. there are consquences that you cant handle at 12 like a BABY. i'm 21 married and have a baby and it is hard for me and i have a very good job. it will be 20xs harder on a child that has a baby. and yes at 12 you can get pergnant. or worse he could have given you and STD and you sure as hell dont want one of those. you need to see some pics of STDs b4 you will get it. what in the hell made you think to have sex? you are a child CHIRDREN DO NOT NEED TO BE HAVING SEX. your mother needs to know so you can go to the doc and get and STD test and a pregancy test. after that you need to take a vow to not ever have sex again till you are married. ask you mom to get a vibrator so when you get tempted you can use that. then when you are older like 18 and graduated HS then you can think about having sex
2006-08-03 13:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by silver_princess16_03 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, first of all. You need to watch out for any rashes, bumps, itchiness. If you see anything unusul, you need to go to a doctor. Don't feel embarrassed either, because your doctor won't tell your parents unless you ask.
Second: If you plan to continue having sex (which I suggest you don't, simply because you're still young and probably more vulnerable to disease and such), make sure you have safe sex. Always use a condom, etc. etc. However, I strongly suggest that you don't have sex until later. Don't get me wrong, sex is not bad. But, in the wrong situation, it can be unhealthy. Just be very careful.
My third piece of advice: don't feel bad about yourself. You're still a good person, and you don't need to panick. Tell someone you trust, it may help keep you sane. Keeping a secret like that is hard and causes stress. Hope this helped.
2006-08-03 13:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl what were you thinking? Twelve and you had sex. When i was twelve i was still thinking about barbie dolls!! I'm not trying to make you feel bad or anything but did you really think about this before you did it. Whoever your boyfriend is he was not really thinking about what is good for you because this sure isn't. I know you might have had sex but that doesnt mean you have to continue having sex. If your boyfriend cant understand that you shouldnt be having sex maybe you should leave him alone. Just take this as a lesson learned by patient dont rush 2 grow up cause its not as fun as is seems.
2006-08-03 13:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by SouthernSweetie07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u had sex and ur 12!
wel i guess first have u started your period?cos if u have then u have more chance of been pregnant. i mean u can still get pregnant if u havent started but its less likely.
and so then if u have started pray to god u r not pregnant
i wouldnt tell ur parents unles ur pregnant either then if u r pregnant tell them
no matter what u do they will always love u i no ive never even met u or ur parents but they will never be able to stop loving u
they may hate what u did but they wont hate u!
2006-08-03 13:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by kaf. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u didntsay how far uwent but u should stop now. do u want akid whene ur 13. u may think ur grown up doing this to prove something to somebody but it just leads to trouble.he will say to his cronies he scored with u and u will get a reputation.some damage has been done already.U can still save urselve and reputation. Concentrate on ur future,set little goals to get to the big goal
2006-08-03 13:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by pandora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babygrl y r u having sex at 12. second r u pregnant have STDs or something. what do u need help on. email if u would like answers luvin_lyfe22@yahoo.com
2006-08-03 13:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by luvin_lyfe22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have your head examined. Why would you take the chance of getting pregnant?? You are much too young. Put as much effort into going to school and getting an education.
2006-08-03 13:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey there's no going back now. you need to ditch this guy or you'll be pregnant by fourteen trust me. you're not in the mental state where you can associate sexual relationships with potential dangers. preteens think they're invincible and nothings going to happen to them. wait til you're older next time and use protection!
2006-08-03 13:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by jellogiggle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how old is your boyfriend?
If he is over 14 he is a little jerkoff. . Be a kid first as long as you can.
You do realize he has told everyone . How do I know this?
HE SLEPT WITH A LITTLE CHILD. He does not care about you!
2006-08-03 13:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by cardog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say it was a little to early. too young. but whats done is done. just dont sleep around and use protection no matter what. just be careful in what u do. good luck and dont be to hard on urself
2006-08-03 13:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by tupacamarushakur7196 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋