my ex has stole 30grand out oif my bank account help?

Question

he gave his father 30 grand of mine to look after now it has all gone, can someone advise

Answer 1

go to the police...

Answer 2

I'm having a hard time believing someone with 30grand in their account has grammar as bad as yours. In my opinion, you're full of ****!

If this is tru, however, then If you guys were still together when he did that it counts as a form of abuse, if he takes your money, keys, car or anything else you need in order to control you then a your lawyer will have a pretty good case, especially if the bank can show that he signed for the money.

Answer 3

What do you mean, look after? Like, invest or something? Was it some kind of business deal? If it was business, call the Better Business Bureau. Call the bank and advise them it was fraud so he can't grab any other money you might have. Call a lawyer or maybe your local Legal Aid society or Rural Aid society or whatever it's called in your area. They might be able to help you file something for free or cheap--otherwise, get a lawyer and see what you can get back.

Answer 4

I will give you some quick advice that I would also give to myself is someone pulled something like that on me. Remember to take care of YOU while you are proceeding to take care of him. Don't allow yourself to be rustled off to one side, or get too tired or forget to eat regular meals, even though you are obviously very upset by the whole thing. My advice is to remember who YOU are and keep making sure you get your rest, that the people you retain to deal with this event are trustworthy, that you have supportive friends who will rally around you and keep you strong as nails until this whole whing-ding is resolved. When this happened to a friend of mine, he lost it, took too many anti-anxiety pills, slept too much, in a sense gave up, lost sleep, didn't eat right and spent God knows how much time feeling sorry for himself, and like everyone was out to get him, but you, fortunately, are not going to make any of those mistakes. You are going to put yourself very front and center, especially now, and this is going to be a very strong position you will be in to fight this until it is either put right, and he is put to shame. Are you certain he did it? That is what the whole thing hinges upon. I am sending this to you with good energies and a prayer for peace of mind while you climb up a very long mountain and eventually see the beautiful view which will come from getting this all settled and behind you. Take good care, now. From Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. (I am 63 years old.)

Answer 5

Take him off the account, first of all. Then contact the police and a lawyer.

Answer 6

The bastard! Go to the police and have charges laid. Like now. If you don't then he knows he can get away with anything and he will come at you again and take something else that you have worked hard for.

Answer 7

First off, what made you think it was the smart thing to do? You only let yourself deal with your money. Thats why its in YOUR bank account, not a SHARED bank account with your ex.

Answer 8

DUH! First of all why can your ex still get into your account? If he's an ex he should have no access to that, unless you didn't tell the bank any different and they still have him on your account. Go to the bank people with proof of this then press charges fast.

Answer 9

get a lawyer, file chapter 11 and 17 and start over (never let anyone know your account or pin number)

Answer 10

Damn well call the Police, this sounds to me like Theft.

If there is a particular story about this or if you know how access was gained to the money then please provide details and I can advise.

Good luck.

:-)

Answer 11

The police and then a good lawyer and then a good slap in the face. That should do it.