we were best friends in elementary till 9th grade and he moved and we lost contact. now I'm in college and he found out where which turns out to be a couple of hours driving distance, so he called me up and I was so happy to talk to him. A couple of more phone calls and he starts telling me how he loved me and how he was always in love with me. I told him I'm sorry I don't feel that way and I'm with someone I really love, He said he will come and meet me and change my mind. He use to be a skinny shorter than me guy, now he's all muscles and hott( I saw he's pic) I love my boyfriend. How do I handle this.
2006-08-03 12:56:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do love my man and I don't go looking at his pic, he sent it to me. Well, I did cut all ties with him so I guess that was the best thing to do
2006-08-03 14:04:43 · update #1
you ignore this guy because if you are happy you should not let anyone else interfere with that happiness. If you told him that you are in love and he seems to not want to take no for an answer than it is best to cut ties with him.
2006-08-03 13:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is the pic really him or someone else? If he went looking for you becareful. If you love somone already don't meet him. Stick with the guy you love. You don't want to lose something you already have. If he doesn't care who you are with and he is going to have you, change your number to unlisted! Quit answering his calls, cuz they will keep coming and then he will start stalking you, if he hasn't already.
2006-08-03 20:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Pahoua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend and let him know everything up front (just to save face with him) then when it comes time to meet this guy, Don't go it alone. Take your boyfriend with you. It wil get the point across to everyone who you are with.
2006-08-03 20:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to tell him that you have moved on and that your sorry and maybe meeting with him in person is not a good idea... cause what if he puts you in a like weird situation... tell him that your in a good relationship and that you love your man... and that nothing is gonna change that unless you feel otherwise... well that's all i can tell you i guess....
2006-08-03 20:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by ilovechris!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you're NOT interested. Whether he's hot or not, if you're in a relationship that you want to continue, he needs to understand this...if he can't take no for an answer, I'd definitely be informing my boyfriend that he is on his way...
But you shouldn't let your choices be stemmed from his looks...
2006-08-03 20:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love your boyfriend more than you like this guy right??You need to first chose who you want to be with.z=Then when you pick tell your old friend you already found your one love and you don't want to be with him.if he still insists I suggest you stop answering his phone calls if thats all he wants to talk about.
2006-08-03 20:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your BF then why are you even talking to him in that way? Looking at his picture? Those are bad things that will lead to worse.
2006-08-03 20:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by nonono12345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
under all those muscles is still they guy you didn't feel that way about...if it's just looks you care about then you don't truly love your boyfriend
2006-08-03 20:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by blueman2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get a pro and pay, for u are not a plaything for him.and the police would like to meet him.
2006-08-03 20:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by george 1940 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is so persistent that despite your telling me that you don't want him other than a friend and youy having a boyfriend, then its time to ignore him.
2006-08-03 20:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋