she and i have been best friends since the tenth grade and since she's met this guy it's like i don't even know her anymore? am i freakin out or should i be seriously worried ?
2006-08-03 12:54:02 · 6 answers · asked by julia c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry,she's all yours...and I doubt you two will be broken up for long.It's a shame the three of you can't just get along/together...I'm sure he doesn't want to break you two up...probably,he would rather have you both as friends(and maybe with benefits-if you were okay with it-of course)
2006-08-04 05:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I actually met my fiance online and had some hassle from people about him. I only listened to myself...I knew there was going to be something for us. We're engaged now...however, this isn't always going to be the case. I actually stopped talking to a few people because of their prejudgments about him (these weren't best friends mind you!).
If she has actually changed what kind of person she has become (emotionally or even physically) I'd definitely be concerned. However, unfortunately, it won't change until she realizes that she's needs to do just that...change.
If she isn't ready to change yet, I'd back off a little. Once she sees that you're not around much anymore, she might start to see something isn't right. Hopefully then you can tell her why and she'll listen? I do hope that she will listen to your reasoning though! Good luck!!
2006-08-03 20:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well relationships of all types can go through lots of changes and ups and downs. I would try to be there for your friend when she needs you and not let this situation change things - it sounds like she will go through her relationship with the man and maybe slightly taken by him but I feel that she will not lose you as a friend.
Stick with it - she may need you sooner than later.
2006-08-04 12:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by 1919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO ITS UR BEST FREn..y wont u talk to her n tell how u feel but dis break up dont waste a long frenship like dat
2006-08-03 19:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bit of colum a, a bit of colum b (i know i spelt colum wrong, but i'm tired, leave me alone!)
2006-08-03 19:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by ezzaphill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be seriously worried becuz anythin could happend to her and everyone will blame it on u becuz u know about wat she is puttin herself into.
2006-08-03 20:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Trina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋