what do i do ?? HELP
2006-08-03 12:46:42 · 23 answers · asked by sexi_pink_panther 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he loved you he would dump the gf and come running to you. obviously hes lieing to you. he tells you he still loves you to keep you around for a back up. get over him hes a looser. find you a good man.
2006-08-03 12:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by ~It's Me~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation right now. I have decided to move on. That is I am dating other people, and if one of them and I connect, then that will be that. If my ex decides that he can't live without me and wants to come back.......he'll have to wait for me to get back to him. If I decide I want to. I do love him, but he has made a choice and I am making a choice to be happy and move on rather than pine away over him.
2006-08-03 19:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance yourself from him. There's a reason you guys broke up in the first place, and the fact that he's hinting at feelings for you even though he's taken means he's pretty much a cheater. So either way, even if you guys get together again, it won't be good.
2006-08-03 19:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by tigerlilyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ignore him because entertaining that idea at all will unleash a world full of drama that you probably don't need. There are so many other fish in the sea and one that is probably more suited for you out there. Be paitent and relax....enjoy life and try new things. Love finds us when we are not looking for it.
2006-08-03 19:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don't care how much he loves you, if you are more important than the girlfriend, he should choose you over her, and date you, not her.
If he is unable to come to grips with his feelings and choose you, then move on. Otherwise, you will only hurt yourself more thinking of what could have been.
2006-08-03 19:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_mommy_crappypants 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him honestly and if you feel from him he´s really being honest with you (when he talks that he loves you). If you feel that, so ask him why he´s with her. But don´t stay with him or come back to him if he´s still with the other gf. You´ll have your heart broken...besides, it is not fair with you 3 ("he", "she" and you).
2006-08-03 19:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Nora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him! in my experiences that is his way of keeping you on hand. you know the type go out get drunk, call you, comes over, sex, don't hear from him until who knows when after that. find someone who will be devoted to you. if this guy loved you, wouldn't he be with you? instead of another girlfriend?
2006-08-03 19:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this type of guy, you won't want to keep as he can do the same to you too.
what is this I have feelings for you but I have another girlfriend? he can surely says bye bye to his gf unless you telling me that they are engaged or married or something...
honestly, he is just two timing you gals.
2006-08-03 19:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe him, he's an ex for a reason right? And if he's willing to be with you when he's with her, that means he's a cheater. Dump him and move on.
2006-08-03 19:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by siropson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an ex that does this to me but I don't dwell on it. You shouldn't either because he has a girlfriend. Tell him he shouldn't be saying that to you because its messing with your heart and mind.
2006-08-03 19:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋