People who say its gross to do that are full of bullshit and need to get a life.
2006-08-03 12:31:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No...if you curse those people out, it is just showing that you're too immature to be dating an older woman. Instead of retaliating, you should have a regular grown-up conversation and state why dating an older woman is so much better than dating your own age. It will help them see your side of it, and may help them accept it.
2006-08-03 12:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I've been with someone 20 years my junior. Yes, it was legal..
Two of my friends have married 20 years their junior..
I know a young man that was dating someone 45, when he was 20-21.. He seemed to enjoy the relationship..
You need a support group.. check out the site.. and then you won't feel the need to get upset with the other people who think this is gross..
Good luck to you! Hope both of you enjoy one another for a long time to come..
2006-08-03 12:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by sassy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this is in the ettiquette section, the correct answer is "no." It's never good ettiquette to curse anyone out for any reason.
If you'd asked in another category, the answer would be that it's up to the 21 year old -- he gets to choose his own behavior and responses, and so long as they fall short of breaking the law or violating the rights of another, there's not a bleepin' thing anyone can do about it.
2006-08-03 12:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, given that a 21 year old wants to curse others out proves why he shouldn't be dating someone so obviously more mature than him in so many ways.
2006-08-03 13:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by misslabeled 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you need to curse out anyone for any reason if you are sure of what you are doing is from the heart and not just for shock effect. I am sure the woman would appreciate the fact that her young lover, or date not make such a fool of himself in public or otherwise.
2006-08-03 12:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by kickinupfunf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
! I was 21 when I met my wife who was 49 at the time, I had just gotten out of the service and was looking to settle down. I was dating my wife's youngest daughter and it wasn't going well she was immature for her age and wasn't ready for commitment. so to make a long story shorter I asked Mary out at first she said no because of the age difference, I didn't give up and she went out with me. that was 19 years ago we lived together for 6 years before marriage and have been happy ever since. The guy who did the cussing sounds immature to me maybe he's not ready for commitment yet!
2006-08-03 12:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it just proves immaturity. It is really nobodies buisness. People are too worried about what others are doing. Would it be more acceptable for you to date a 19 year old and do drugs?
2006-08-03 12:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by aggie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your own life. But sometimes we have to listen to other people,especially if they're our friends. They can shown us another point of view.
When we're in love,we are blind...Don't worry I'm 50 years old woman,and I think it would be great to be in love with a 21-year old ...jajaja
2006-08-03 12:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Susana C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is you need like a 19-23 year old NOT 50
2006-08-03 12:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what other people accept about YOUR life. lots of young men prefer the maturity and experience of older women. what's the limit to how old? who knows? she could be 80 years old, but if she make you happy, that's all anyone is really looking for ! YOU GO BOY!!!!!
2006-08-03 12:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋