I have this person how claims to be my friend, I help him when he is in need and have spent hours talking with him about problems, his family problems ect. I have found out that it's all a con job he does it to just get things from people and he does the same to others too.What should I do?
2006-08-03 12:16:16 · 17 answers · asked by duckyman204 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
jesus said forgive 7 times 77
i say, find new friend after forgiving the old
thus in compliance with jesus
2006-08-03 12:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him that what you think he's doing is a whole con job and then go from there. If he does the same thing to another person who you personally know then tell them about your suspicions. After that you let them know that it's their choice weather they believe you or not. If they get hurt at least you warned them.
2006-08-03 20:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by inuyashagirl1991 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak Truth in Love.
Honestly, Directly, Calmly.
2006-08-03 19:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lives7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that he is actually conning you and this isn't just a rumor, apologize kindly and tell him you love him but that you would prefer breaking off the relationship because you think he is a cheat. Just be kind and loving, and not to just him... to everyone!
2006-08-03 19:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by akempis2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a HUGE diff between Turing the other cheek and between being used! if i was you i would tell you "friend" how it is.. Friendship is both of you guys giving and taking , not just one getting and the other talking,. speak up dude! that's Not being mean! yoUr doing ur "friend and your self a favor!.
2006-08-03 19:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a huge difference between being a friend and being taken advantage of. Perhaps it's time, now, to tell him you no longer wish to be his fool and let him go on his way.
2006-08-03 19:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to help people in need is to send them to an employment agency or homeless shelter.
2006-08-03 19:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Left the building 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn the tables, become a needy friend like he is towards you, towards him, start asking him for favors, yard work, need a ride somewhere, need twenty bucks, I bet he get's rid of himself quick.
2006-08-03 19:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop wasting your time with this person, and warn your friends likewise. This seems a little obvious actually, but then I dont know you.
2006-08-03 19:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be available to listen, to encourage, empathize yet also speak loving truth into his life. it is important to hold a line and not to allow him to cross it. embrace him, but do not envelop him. if he is allowing you this deep into life, ask questions. continually. don't give him answers or absolutes, but ask the question that will allow him to self reflect....
2006-08-03 19:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by cogos17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not really a friend..... he is a parasite.....just dump him and find someone better..
this is not a "turn the other cheek ' situation.....this is a "yoke yourselves not with unbelievers" situation.
2006-08-03 19:25:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋