My parents hate each other, but they are afraid to spilt because of the fact that they have kids. What should I do? I think that things would be a whole lot smoother if they did spilt, but yet I don't want them to.
2006-08-03 12:11:57 · 11 answers · asked by Kay22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In the long run they are better off going their separate ways because their fighting is tearing you apart. You are very mature in your thinking and nobody wants their parents to split up but since your mature enough to know that they are better off apart. You will be mature enough to handle the split. I hope they can be as mature as you and see that. Good luck sweetie and keep that common sense of yours it will take you a long way in life.
2006-08-03 12:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Coming from a home of divorced parents, I know how you feel. It is very hard for children but I think you should talk to them about it. If you really think that them spliting is the best thing for everyone, then you should tell them that.
2006-08-03 19:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by malohalo_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they hate each other as you say, it would be ridiculous to stay together. It's hard on kid's but like other hurtful things people and kids get over them in time.
2006-08-03 19:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by moepah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray Hard.Is there danger or violence involved?
That the kids is helping to hold the marriage is
a plus;it shows deep concern for their future.
Unless its 'unsafe',I generally hope for staying
together. Do understand that unfaithfulness or
cheating creates an unsafe environment. We care. Later.
2006-08-03 19:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bro Ja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents... tell them that if they are not happy with each other than there really isnt a reason to be together. tell them how you feel about it that you rather be happy then to be misrable.
2006-08-03 19:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then either get them to a marriage counsouller or tell them that she should split...think of their happiness before your own.
2006-08-03 19:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easier to split. True. But. They have kids and your risking damaging them.
2006-08-03 19:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to work their poroblems out...many times starting with a common love (i.e. the kids) they can path their differences. If you make it known you want it to work, they will try harder.
2006-08-03 19:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing for you to do except resepect both of their wishes and try to be good while they are going thru this.
2006-08-03 19:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with them and tell them your thoughts...
2006-08-03 19:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋