I am 13 and like 7 guys have asked me out! i feel really bad cause one guy started cutting himself cause i said no! i am really responsible, but my parents don't think i am.
2006-08-03 12:10:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be responsible! Your parents know when you should date.. I know it sounds odd, but you may think you are able to, but your parents would know. 13 is too young to start dating. You dont need the pressure that guys will be putting on you. Enjoy school and dont start thinking about dating until you are in highschool (14 years old at the earlies 16 yrs old prefferable). You should steer clear of any guy that does something to himself or others because you turn them down. Sooner or later you will learn to view these types as destructive and dangerous. Imagine what would happen if you had started dating him, then it didn't work out... Wouldn't that be far worse? what would he cut then? Who would he cut? If he thought that was an acceptable outlet for his anger/disapointment... what if he felt you were responsible? HE MIGHT CUT YOU! sounds bad huh? maybe it sounds like I'm blowing it out of proportions? I've known someone that acted just like you were saying.... and he has abused everygirl friend I've ever known him to have. He's a real prick and a big mess. STAY AWAY FROM THOSE TYPES. You should never be guilted into a relationship with someone. Only date guys because you are genuinely interested in them... and not for any other reason. Good Luck... and give your parents a hug for watching out for you... think of where you might be without them? They love you, and they only want the best for you.
2006-08-03 12:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm you are NOT responsible for this guy cutting his self he just needs therapy. And if you start going out with him then break up with him he will more than likely hurt you i mean why not he's already hurting his self. Oh and by the why 13 is a young age you have a lot to learn still and going out with a guy without any parental supervision is too much. Maybe you can go to school dances and things of that nature you don't have to go out on a date just because a guy asked you out.
2006-08-03 12:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by thugangel19842002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 14, and I totally understand!! My mom freacked once she found out that I had a boyfriend! But I brought him over, and showed her that i was responsible and that he is a nice caring guy, and she let me date him. Most parents trust you, it's the guys they don't trust. They are also probable upset that you are growing up and wanting to date. I hope that I helped. I know, it's hard. And you are absolutly not responsible for that guy cutting himself. That's his fault, not yours!!! And if that is bugging you, you should talk to someone. Someone who can help you realize that you are 100% not responisible!!!! Plus, I know from experice, 13 is too young for you to be dating guys. That is why I am single right now, I just broke up with that guy. And you might be mature, but trust me those guys are not!! That guy like totally had an act going, and I fell fot it. So don't get yourself in that kind of mess. Trust me...it stinks!
2006-08-03 12:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kay22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 13 year old daughter and she is not allowed to date. But now I will take her to the movies to meet a boy friend but I am also there with them just on a different row so they can talk or whatever as long as I can see that they are not doing stuff they are not allowed maybe you could suggest this to your parents to earn their trust so you can maybe go by yourself. But always remember you are still a young teenager and you don't want to get stuck with a baby now.
2006-08-11 04:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by meanalotacus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your parents. You are to young to date. Wait till you at least 16. I'm sure you will have a lot of guys liking you then. And as for the kid that cut's himself, he is definitely not for you. He's got problems and he needs help.
2006-08-03 12:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to date a guy who cuts himself when you reject him? Honey, they are protecting you cause you shouldn't feel bad when that happens--- you should run from guys like that!
13 is so young for guys and all their issues. Enjoy hangin out w/ your girls and stuff like that.
There will be plenty of time later on for all that drama.
If I was yr parents, I would maybe let you go on group dates. Like double dates w/ your friends. Suggest that to them.
2006-08-03 12:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13!!! Your parents are in charge of you. You can ask them if you can date but by the sounds of the people that have asked you, your parents are making a good choice.
2006-08-11 10:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by Chadwick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents if the guys can come over and meet them first. This will do two things for you: calm you parents and weed out the losers.
2006-08-11 06:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by VTGunz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have this same issue with my daughter that is 13, as far as going out with a guy alone no, to me its a safety issue i will let her meet a guy at the mall if she is with a friend but only if i have met him, its hard being a parent we just want to keep you safe, just keep talking to your parents maybe they can meet you half way on this.
2006-08-11 10:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by earthygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all 13 years old! 7 boys on yo' dick u must look good *** hell for somebody to be cutting they arms all up and **** tell them they can look but dont you touch
2006-08-11 04:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Seven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋