One of them has a lot of money an likes 2 take me shopping
the other one just wants 2 take it steady
And the last one knows a lot about me has a J.O.B and makes me laugh a lot
who should i pick?
2006-08-03 11:54:41 · 22 answers · asked by Iyesha_ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should pick YOU! The attributes that you mention about each boy is barely enough to justify choosing which should be your best friend never-the-less your lover.
Get to know yourself and love yourself first. I don't have all the information I'd need to make a reasonable opinion, but I have a gut feeling that you have not fully matured. You need to discover who you are inside and what you have to offer a potential boyfriend. Once you know this, you will not have to ask anyone who to choose you will be in control of your destiny and you will choose the right man.
2006-08-03 12:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be real with yourself and find out what you are really looking for in a relationship. It sounds like you're kind of young so don't end up playing yourself while you're playing these three guys. Guys with a lot of money usually have a lot of girls and just because a guy has a job doesn't make him the perfect man for you. Slow down and take it easy.
2006-08-03 19:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by nish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to pick. Tell them that you're just dating for now ( after a few months someone will naturally come to the top.)
Make a list of 10 Must-Have's and 10 Can't Stands and weed out in the first couple dates. Can't stand violations are immediately flagged and the person gets tossed. Sometimes it takes a while to see someone's good qualities on the Must Have side.
2006-08-03 18:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pick the last one. He sound slike he would make you the most happy and he also is reliable b/c he has a job. He knows alot about you and he makes you laugh. Those are two things that are important in a relationship. I hope I have helped.
2006-08-03 18:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first guy: DUMP! He's just showering you with money and stuff.
Second Guy: He respects you, by taking it steady.
Third Guy: He's funny, and knows a lot, so he listens to you.
Pick either the Second Guy or the Third Guy. I cant give you and actual answer, because i dont know what youre like. Teach the Third Guy more about you. He will be PERFECT!
2006-08-03 19:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by jessicad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I'm confused, it seems you have a perfect situation, just now.
Unless you are being pressurized to pick one, I'd just keep on seeing them all. The more you get to know them, the better and the easier it will be to pick the right one.
Sooner or later, you will know in your heart, who is the right one.
Time often reveals the truth to us.
Good luck.
2006-08-03 19:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was u I would really pick the one who makes u laugh!!
2006-08-03 18:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by NO DICE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one who makes you laugh. Having fun is the most important thing.
2006-08-03 18:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by applecheeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the last one
2006-08-03 19:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by hello_kitty_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money should never matter just as long as he isn't a slacker. Wait a while and choose the one that you feel the most for. (And I don't mean you feel their wallet the most.) Love has nothing to do with money so you can't base your decision entirely on money.
2006-08-03 18:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by dluke68502 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋