I feel uncomfortable being with a guy that is more experienced than I am. Im not a virgin, however, i am still gettin into havin sex. I was just wondering if i was the only girl that felt this way. If possible, can you tell me how you coped with it. Thanks!
2006-08-03 11:50:41 · 12 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to feel like that, but once your into it the feeling goes away!
2006-08-03 11:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Just ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I can honestly tell you sweetie is that by the time that you are 40 ; like I've just hit this last June; well I always felt that way but anyway.... Look at yourself as a prize apple and at its peak of freshness... DO NT LET JUST ANYONE OR ANYTHING GET NEAR YOU UNTIL THEY PROVE THEMSELVES WORTHY ENOUGH FOR YOU!!!In another words please girlfriend pick your chin up guys LIKE girls with no experience it makes them feel that they are special.... trust me!!!
I should know ....the less I appear to know the more GA-GA they get...esp.when you are a Italian 40 year old who everyone swears that when look alike celebrity contest comes to L.A. i AM SUPPOSED TO DROP EVERYTHING AND GO RUNNING
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2006-08-03 12:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by little mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ur not alone..i felt the exact same way about a year ago..it's actually ok if he's more experienced than u, u can learn from him. i was always into older guys bcuz they were more mature for me...as time passes u will get more comfortable with it, just make sure ur always protected, and be safe ok? good luck.
2006-08-03 11:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by RedBoNe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just do. There's no real answer for that question. Just keep in mind - There is always someone better than U out there. In everything U do. Look at it as a learning experince. Everyday U wake up - it's a learning experience.
2006-08-03 11:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Gremlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are nervous about having sex, you can set limits beforehand about what you're willing to do and what disease protection is necessary. The boundary is yours to set. Also, if you are on top, you can control a few variables like speed, position, etc.
2006-08-03 11:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be open to new experiences. If you are frightened hold his hand while you try new things.
Talk about what you want to try. As him what he wants to try. Emontional intimacy is sexy as physical contact.
One of my partners favorite things to do on friday is to call me and ask me what all we are gonna do to eachother over the weeend, he makes him hot just thinking about it.
2006-08-03 11:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by austinguurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything take time, but understand that if you bf didn't have his experience he has, he will not be here with you today. if you love him, the except him the way he is. good and bad.
2006-08-03 11:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually i think youll get used to it. As for me i preffer someone who is more experienced than me.
2006-08-03 11:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me... guys feel this way, I'm not sure about you ladies but it would be nice to know if they did.
2006-08-03 11:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here
2006-08-03 11:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by Katelynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋