me and my lover want to have a baby but me have tried but we are not yet pregnant so does anyone know any new things we can try this would be our first baby we have been maried for a couple of months.
2006-08-03 11:32:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Quit trying. I know that sounds weird but the stress of trying to get pregnant can actually cause you not to. Forget that you are trying and just enjoy each other. It will happen in time.
2006-08-03 11:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by mommyofthree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other person - JUST WAIT! When it is meant to happen it will happen. Not to mention you've only been married a couple months, you should enjoy your time together right now and just be a couple for a while. Having a baby changes everything, including your relationship!
2006-08-03 18:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by vwladybug1413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you said your lover. Now it's your wife. mmmmmmmm. Well, anyway, go slow. I mean, you're not even sure if she's your lover, or wife. Trying to get pregnant takes longer for some. Just relax, it'll happen. If not, both of you should be checked out to make sure everything is in working order.
2006-08-03 18:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dragonfly your lover is and can be your spouse so stop being so childish.
however all i can suggest is keep at it, may be consult a specialist to see if one or both of you have any medical problems that could be causing you not to concieve.
are you sure you stopped taking "the pill", are you sure he is not wearing a condom? are you sure you are not using an form of birth control?
is your husband really wanting and ready to be a parent with you, but holding out and not actually cuming in you, or is he only releasing pre-ejaculant.
as you can see there is no simple answer to your problem.
so your first course of action should be to consult the doctor specialising in this field. and see what he/ she suggests.
2006-08-03 18:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, and don't stress over it. It will happen. You can keep track of your cycles or see a doctor, but since this is something you've only been trying a couple of months...I would suggest you both just relax, enjoy each other, and let nature take its course!
2006-08-03 18:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How beautiful that you call your spouse your lover! Just keep enjoying each other. It will happen. Take some time to enjoy being a married couple. Children last forever---AND I DO MEAN FOREVER!
2006-08-03 18:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Couple of months??!! Be patient. We didnt get pregnant until our second anniversary
2006-08-03 18:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by tearsnomore2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your lover or your husband? Heres a thought get married
2006-08-03 18:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters get off the Internet. You know where babies come from, get to it.
Otherwise you should see a fertility clinic. They can help.
2006-08-03 18:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by Christopher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your under 10 and are "married" don't get a baby yet
2006-08-03 19:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Erin-Elena Neverland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋