My sister in law called child protection on me for no reason!!! we had an argument over something completely unrelated and this b i t c h called child protection annimously knowing there was no reason to...even the man who came to see the house unexpectedly one tuesday morning who made me later for work as he went thru my cupboards and fridge to make sure there was food...who made me show him that my kids had plenty of clothes and a place to sleep...who examined toys and mademe show him all the kids soaps shampoos and lotions then apologized for wasting my time on what was obviously a waste of everyones time said there was no reason for him to be there...i swear to god i am gonna do something so horrible to her ...any suggestions???? she has 3 kids (14-12 and 10) and a boyfriend...i want her to lose all of them
2006-08-03 11:27:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
she is my fiances sister...she is not a good mother (she lays in the bed with her boyfriend all day...leaves her kids alone all the time and they may be 14-12 and 10 but they act like a bunch of 3 yr olds...they have no home training at all because nobody pays attention to them)
i know that i sound bitter but at the moment i am...i just got this information so it is all fresh in my head and i am VERY ANGRY!
and it may seem like only 1 day of work bu ti am on a very tight budget and missing 1/2 a day of work put me back more than you would think
2006-08-03 11:52:59 · update #1
How do you know who called protective services?
I would be mad, too, but I would also be very proud of myself because the visitor found NOTHING wrong! Pat yourself on the back- you have provided well for your children.
Best wishes!!
from a grandma-aged person
2006-08-03 11:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they should have the right to search people's homes and take action based on anonymous calls like that. This has just gone too far. Your anger should also be directed at the system, which allows an ignorant b**** to do something like this.
If I were you, I'd find another place to live and not leave my forwarding address, and make sure this sister in law does not know where I am.
With "friends" like that, who needs enemies? But it won't do any good to try to retaliate. Just get her away from you.
2006-08-03 18:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's doing this to you, She's obviously not mentally or physically fit to be a mother. NO normal mother would EVER do something like this for no reason because she should know how great a mother's love for her kids is, and she knows how she would feel if it happened to her. She doesn't love her kids. Or maybe she does, I don't know.
Give us some more details! Is she a good mother from what you know?
If so, report her immediately. It's not only revenge, but it's the right thing to do.
2006-08-03 18:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sister in law did you a huge favor...it is now public record that you are a proper parent...it's never a waste of taxpayers time or money to check out these calls even if they are fakes...better safe than sorry...
The best revenge is living well...dont wish bad things on folks ...it comes back to haunt you
2006-08-03 19:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by djanis123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a very good person from reading your information you left us , your attitude stinks, sounds like your white trailer trash, am i right? Its not nice to have her children taken away just because you have a grudge, what about for her poor kids, how will they feel?
And i sure hope you don't have kids I'm afraid to see how they will turn out
2006-08-03 18:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty ridiculous, and heartless that you want her to lose EVERYTHING that's important in her life.
It sounds like both of you need to grow up and be adults. What kind of horrible example are you setting for your children?
Get over it. Your children didn't get taken away. God forbid you're late for work ONE morning.
2006-08-03 18:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Guppy Geek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! She then is the immature one in this whole situation! Be the ADULT in this. Show her you are better by ignoring the whole thing. If you do something to her or her innocent kids, that means you could get into trouble and that you have sunk to her level.
I would just ignore her!
2006-08-03 18:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Me...Cat Tyson?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is Justice without the Satisfaction
2006-08-03 18:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both are too immature to have kids.
I'd drop it. Be an adult rather than a vendictive child throwing a tantrum.
2006-08-03 18:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try being the better person than her?
When you say SIL, is she on your side of the family or DH's? If she's your relative, talk to your brother. If she's DH's relative, have him talk to her or her hubby.
DON'T go trying to "get revenge" as it will only make you look childish.
2006-08-03 18:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋