Is my partner cheating?

Question

I have been dating this guy for about ten months now, when we first met we used to spend a lot of time together. Now we only see each other once a week if that. When we do see each other he tells me and he shows more affection than he used to could he be feeling guilty about something. I asked him if he was seeing anybody else and he said no but he was hesitant to answer. He'll always have an excuse as to why he haven't called or why he couldn't see me. Could he be seeing someone else

Answer 1

if you have to ask then the answer is probably yes..

Answer 2

The question shouldn't so much be if he's cheating on you, but rather; are you happy with the situation as it is? If you don't feel secure and comfortable with the way things are now, do you really want to go on with this person? You only live once....don't hang on unless you can honestly say to yourself that it feels right. Trust your instincts.

Answer 3

I'm afraid that if your heart and 'sense' is teling you that he is seeing someone else, he probably is.

I don't know how old you are, but I would suggest that men will often continue seeing a woman even though they aren't so 'into' her. If your emotional needs aren't getting met (and it sounds like they aren't) probably either way you'd be better off growing in self-confidence on your own for a while.

Answer 4

It's possible but he also may not be. The best advice I can give you is to go with your instincts. If you feel that he is even if he is not then the relationship is not working for you. And if he is cheating then he's not worthy of you. It really does sound like you need to move on before you get in deeper with him. Good luck to you and God bless!

Answer 5

May be he loves u, but it seems to look like that may be he had a girl on otherside. He had done something wrong and he hesisted to say to u. He is trying to hide from u. So let him do it. U will find out later anyhow. Dont put pressure on him. Or u can ask his friends may be they know....

Answer 6

well every relationship are like that....esp if there is always arguments in this relationship for some reason guys are getting cool feet...is not bcoz their losing their feeling is just to stop it they rather be not seeing you everyday to avoid conversation...guys are guys they dont like this kinda staff...even you ask them they wont say anything...their not like us ladys we show emotions..

anyways as a friendly advised dont jump in any conclusion that his cheating...STOP MESSING WITH YOUR HEAD..what i would suggest is to give him some space....try to be less available to his needs...this time let him miss you...if you could stop calling him..if he calls you pretend your busy or let it go to your voicemail...you know those kinda staff (playing hard to get)

and maybe if you do this..he will know your important...coz guys are like that as long that were around them...they will never know are VALUE. coz if you keep on annoying him asking him WHY WHY WHY???? THE MORE YOUR SENDING HIM AWAY.

THIS IS ALL UP TO YOU DEAR....GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

Talk to him, and say that you would only go out with a guy that is honest. If he says that he has been cheating give him another chance to show that you forgive him and tell him if he does it again your through

Answer 8

Yep

Answer 9

i think that if you are suspicious then you are probably correct in your feelings. he is not going to tell you if he is. do some investigative work, and find out for yourself.

Answer 10

you love him, trust him
if you don't trust him, leave him