My father died 4 years ago, my mother died 4 months ago, i have one sibling who doesn't even acknowledge my existence, and a boyfriend of 4 years who treats me like dirt. Since my mom died i live alone now and my life has become even more meaningless and empty, and i don't think anybody would notice if i disappeared. All i want is to be with my mom again, and be happy, even if its in heaven where she is. And since God doesn't hear my plea's for him to take me so i can just be with her, i'd rather just kill myself, instead of living out the rest of my miserable going nowhere life. Because life can't crap on you this much and still have anything other than tragedy in store for you. And i know its a sin to commit suicide, but will i still go to hell, does God hate me that much?
2006-08-03 11:24:48 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
whether or not it's a sin, it is a tragedy. you have plenty of opportunities to make your life meaningful again - volunteer to help those less fortunate than you (yes, there are a lot of people in that position). help hungry children or homeless pets. being able to do something to help someone else will raise your spirits and will make your time on this earth worthwhile. your mom would want you to make the best of your time here... trust me, your death would be the most disappointing thing you could give her!
2006-08-03 11:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Marina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, don't kill yourself. It is irrelevant whether committing suicide is a sin or not. Just don't do it.
Leave your current environment. Move to a different city. Take some time off to see what else the world has to offer. You need a change.
Don't let anything get you down. The minute you begin to put up a fight, misery and tragedy start to leave you alone. The blessings of your mom will be with you always.
Time is the greatest healer. Give yourself enough time. I am sure you will one day look back on all your misery and realize it was all just to make you a better person.
God does not hate you. In fact, he would love for you to become a successful person in spite of all your misery. Victory is that much sweeter when it comes amidst adversity, and the rewards are greater.
You can win. I know you can.
2006-08-11 08:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by The Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very emotional right now. Please do not do anything until you calm down. Everyone goes through periods of feeling like there is nothing to live for or that things that are already terrible will just get worse.
I think God sent me to this question because I have been reading a set of books that I think will help you.
The 1st book is "A CHILD CALLED "IT" The second one is "THE LOST BOY" and the last is " A MAN NAMED DAVE" they are all written by the same man Dave Pelzer.
You already know the answer to your question. If you kill yourself, You are in fact telling GOD that you do not love and trust him anymore. You are essentually turning your back on him. God does not hate you, He loves you and sent his only son to die for you.
We do not know what GOD has in store for us or what are suffering will do not only to us, but others as well.
Please read the first book "A CHILD CALLED "IT" and you will understand what I mean.
I grew up in the south where there are not many Catholics, You can not believe the hatred that was and to some extend still is shown toward me and other Catholics. I hated going to school because students and even teachers would tell me I was going to Hell unless I converted to their religion.
We all have our devils and troubles to overcome in life. Do not let yours keep you away from the ones you love forever. If you kill yourself, you know that you will go to Hell and never see them again. Remember GOD hears our pleas and prayers, but sometimes the answer is NO.
I will pray for you, Stay here on Earth, we need you!
2006-08-11 08:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by moonlight_is_harmonious_1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the answer that will help you the most.
A lot of bad things have happened to you. You're not alone. Other people hurt, too, but you don't see it because they keep it to themselves.
There is a way out of your pain and suffering.
Get by yourself and grieve. Cry until you can't cry anymore. Yell and howl and curl up and pound the floor. Feel your pain completely.
Again, be ALONE. Give yourself a lot of time alone to do this. Do it more than once if you have to. Sink until you hit bottom.
Then something will happen: you'll start to come back up. I have good news for you! The bottom is solid.
It doesn't matter what you do after doing this. Worry about that later.
2006-08-03 11:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay 4 one thing there is a reason 4 ever thing.Look what I've been through my mom left me w/my Gran when i was just 4 in half.TRY that feeling all your life as if u do not belong.Because of my dad lets just say it was not fun ever thing u can think of was done 2 me &some how i made it and so can u.I think you would be good 2 help some one that is what helps me w/my life.Trust me feeling all a lone is 1 thing u might get over.But if not think of happy things Like your mom she was there &seen u are haveing a hard time she is steal here w/you
2006-08-11 05:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by ~One~Of~A~Kind~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter whether killing yourself is a sin or not. Seek first what lies in your heart. It is only that you miss your parents that you contemplate your fate. Imagine going to heaven only to find that your parents are grieving because they only ever wanted you to live a full life. I was once told that we come into this life to learn a lesson. Those lessons we are trying to learn were not learned in our previous life so we re-enter this life hoping to overcome it. I suggest you take a step back, and look at the positive things in your life. If there aren't that many, then make some more. Life is about enjoying the fact that you bring joy not only to yourself, but to others. Keep strong and know that you are loved, both here and in the afterlife.
2006-08-11 05:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Superslims 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. God loves you so so much, and he wants to comfort you during your time of heartache. You can have a meaningful relationship with Jesus simply by believing that he died on the cross for your sins and that he is the only way for you to go to Heaven. pray this prayer:
Lord Jesus,
I know I'm a sinner, I'm hurting and i'm scared, and I need you. I believe that you died on the cross for my sins and rose again. Please forgive me. Come into my heart and be the Lord of my life. I pray this in Jesus name, Amen.
If you have prayed this prayer and believe in your heart what was spoken therein, you are born again and have a 100% guarentee that you will go to Heaven when you die (don't kill yourself, cause not only is it a sin, but i know God has a plan for your life and can help you through this.). Congradulations! I would really like to talk if you have any questions or anything. Send me a message and I'll be praying for you.
Sincerely,
frodobaggins115
2006-08-03 12:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by frodobaggins115 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when bad things happen God actually knows you are very strong and can overcome. We were never promised a pain free life. Instead of being angry at Him how about asking Him what He wants you to do with your life. Start by helping others. Go to an old folks home. As you are without your mom and dad, they are without their family. Go to the hospital and work with the sick children. There are some there dying that want to live. Brighten their last few days. Make your parents smile on you and be proud of you. They always knew you were somebody special. Prove to them you are. Make an awesome life for yourself so when you do see them again you have something to give them.... a life well lived. m
2006-08-03 11:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mache 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not it is a sin is irrelevant. The most important issue is that you are feeling at the end of your rope and that there is no future for you.
Don't commit suicide. Your life has meaning. You've just got to dig deeper and keep searching.
Get rid of the boyfriend and find some supportive friends. Seek counseling. A good counselor could save your life.
God loves you, and I do too.
2006-08-03 11:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by GJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, suicide is a sin. You can choose kill yourself and go to hell where you won't see your family again or get stronger and face life with faith.
I've also had bad moments perhaps not like losing my family but I know someday I won't see them anymore in this life. I know that it's certainly possible I will suffer pains and fears that will drive me in madness but I have faith that what God has promised -that I will see again my dear family and friends, know happiness,etc- all that He has promised at His Word will be accomplished.
Life is less than a second in Eternity -although sometimes It seems like an Eternity living it, I know- You must be brave and have faith, God loves you and expects you understand this life is just a test after that you'll have your reward. Be patient, have faith and live with courage. God bless you.
2006-08-03 11:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by JAGC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only offer my prayers. First, yes: suicide is a sin, however, if you truly have faith in Christ as your savior, eternal glory always awaits you. Second, as one who has had life take a crap all over my face, I can feel your pain to some degree. God doesn't hate you. Jesus tells us that the WORLD hates us, as it hated Him. Just as sin is an assault on the Lord, those that love the Lord are an assault on it. I can't tell you that life will be full of sunshine and roses, but I can tell you that every thing that happens to someone in the Body of Christ serves the Glory of Christ. I don't know how the Body benefits from your pain, but I can tell you that reading your tale of woe has reminded me of my own deliverence. I must thank you for helping me to feel the pain that no longer controlls me. Long story short, dump the boyfriend, pray for God to deliver you from your distress as He sees fit. Asking God to kill you isn't how He works. Just as James told us that God gives wisdom to any who need it and ask with faith, the same goes for peace.
2006-08-03 11:34:51 · answer #11 · answered by Andy VK from Houston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋