2006-08-03 11:22:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If I had 5K or 15K or 30K , I'd much rather keep it all for a really nice vacation/honeymoon than blow it all on a wedding. And I'm even more practical than that.. I'd spend it on a down on a home. And actually that's what I did. Actually I spent all my money on the down on a home about six months before we got married.. that way we didn't blow it on a wedding and then have nothing to speak of to our names except for some photos.
Bbbuuuuttt.. that's coz I'm a man. Men are bit more practical (typically) than women. Women are more likely to be more emotional.. it's the most "special day" of their lives.
TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION: It's not a fair question, coz every woman is unique and different. Many have visions of a wedding with 200+ people. However, others would rather have two people stand for them and be done with it. Others would rather have the justice of the courts do it and save a load of cash.
But if you did a poll., I'd bet 85% would prefer NOT to get married in a courthouse. And I'd bet that only about 10% of men would care - they'd rather save the money.
2006-08-03 11:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by game buddee 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some women will be upset no matter what happens in any situation. A rational woman would not be upset if she got married in a courthouse. She did not have to do that she obviously choose to do it. If she's real smart she'll realize that she saved several thousands of dollars.
2006-08-03 18:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Track Walker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I got married at the courthouse. We've been married for 8 and 1/2 yrs. and are still in love and hot for each other.
2006-08-03 23:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was my own choice to get married at the courthouse. I think weddings are way to expensive (rather save the money for they honeymoon) and honestly, i hated the thought of everyone looking at me walking down the isle. i would probably have a heart attack. i don't regret it one bit!
2006-08-03 18:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Megan P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry a man that way. I do NOT advocate going into debt to get married, but there are ways to do it to make it special and not spend a fortune. A courthouse marriage is not special.
2006-08-04 01:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know some women that dont even consider they got married if they got married in a couet house. my aunt got married in a court house and they didnt want big wedding i guess it depends on the person
2006-08-03 18:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by ς๏г๒เภ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, that would be my dream marriage. Courthouse and don't have to dress up for people that I don't know and some I don't like.
2006-08-03 18:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got married on the front steps at the court house 46 yrs ago no guest bailiff was witness and best man Secretary was made of honer
2006-08-03 18:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by edgewalker60 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married for the first time in a court house. This time 15 years ago was in a small quaint little church. Very inexpensive and much more memorable.
2006-08-03 18:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by chick a dee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if she is really in love. I love a man so much that I'd marry him ANYWHERE! The important thing is I get to be with him forever (however long that is!)
Good luck!
2006-08-03 18:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋