i know that is good for couples to be away from each other sometimes to be with friends but doesnt it become an issue when they want to get drunk at the club/bar without you there. At times people do things when their intoxicatied. I guess im afaird of my man getting so drunk that he will end up doing something stupid that he is going to regreat especially around his friends.
2006-08-03 11:19:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok with me for this situation. If you trust the guy, then it shouldn't even matter. Yes, it'll be weird and you'll probably be thinking of what he's doing the whole night --but, if you love him and he loves you, then TRUST HIM. And yeah, people do stupid things when they're intoxicated, but you know what, if they truly care about a person, they will watch how much they drink and watch what they are doing. They should be able to control their actions.
2006-08-03 11:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is fine as long as the communication is there. The most important thing is trust. Because no matter how drunk the person is. They are aware of what they are doing. So cheating or sleeping with someone because they are drunk is not an excuse. So if they do end up doing something stupid. they will do the same thing when they are sober. So it is only a matter of there personality, and how much control they have if temptation does arise.
2006-08-03 21:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by mediator113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him unless he come's home way to late without a good explination. My man goes out to the bar's and what not I personally don't like that sceen but as long as he comes home w/in a good time that the bar's close (call info or look in the yellow pages for the bar that you man will be at and ask what time they close) if he is out more then an hour hour and a half after that (take from time to get home) then let the questioning and lipstick hunt begin otherwise just chill and enjoy the time to yourself or invite some gals over for midnight margarittas!!!!!
life is to short to be worried every time your man goes out or even every other time trust in him should make him want you and only you distrust and that could even be the cause of a stray.
2006-08-03 11:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by pandala777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I don't think he should be getting drunk in the first place. My parents are both alcholics and have done nothing good with their life except have us 3 kids.
Yes, people do very stupid things when drunk. I would tell him that if he wants to drink then he can only do it when you are with him. That's not being bossy, just looking out for your and his relationship.
2006-08-03 11:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mambers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone is choosing to get drunk that right there says alot about their maturity level. Do you really want to be in a relationship wherein you have to babysit? If your man is getting drunk he is acting stupid whether he winds up with another woman or not. Statistic after statistic shows people do stupid things when they are intoxicated...sometimes it ruins the rest of their lives.
2006-08-03 11:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its fine. If you are in a real relationship with him then you should be able to trust him having a night out with the boys. I dont care if my man does, cuz I know he is coming home to me. Plus, I have a girls night out every now and then, and believe me when I say my man is not with us and I get drunk....
so I think its fine, unless he gives you a reason not to trust him...then that would be an issue..in my opinion
2006-08-03 11:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it is a stupid thing to do. The truth of the matter about drunks though is that they usually do and say exactly what they would if they were sober. So I guess the question is do you trust him and if so and he does screw up are you willing to make him pay the consequences...
2006-08-03 11:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your concern because I become a total wh0re when I am drunk. My partner lets me go out alone as long as one of our friends who he trusts is with me... and I have a way to get home so I don't have to drive drunk. I don't like going out without him very often but sometimes it is fun as long as I am safe and he knows I am in good hands with my friends he trusts very much to watch and protect me.
2006-08-03 11:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting drunk is bad period. It doesn't matter with whom or where. You really shouldn't drink to get drunk. That puts you in the fast lane toward alcoholism!
Do either of you really want to become alcoholic?
2006-08-03 11:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what you mean, trust me. me and my guy are the same with each other so we just agreed to not drink at all if the other is not around. b/c things can happen and you can't help it when you're drunk. you don't even realize what you're doing sometimes.
2006-08-03 11:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by kjcs_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋