why are american women worthless and spoiled?

Question

In the last few weeks ive been chilling with a few differnt women and the three things they all have in common is 1: they try to take my money for granted 2: are the lazyest beasts on the planet, they sleep more then cats 3: all have baggage that they want someone else to fix for them and make no attemt at a better life with there lack of goals and progress toward them. Only one girl ive dated had goals, but the baggage was to great with the child like winiing and complantes with other peoples drama. it make me wonder if women think men are attracted to that crap. its like there all bossy and selfish sigh...... maybe moving to a differnt state ill find a better grade of women any ideas

then the women who reply come with stupid remarks, your kids that just try to shift blaim. all i want to knwo is why. im not mad im tried, im getting older and ied like a real woman. not a brat or someone that will use me.

im american too BTW and glad to be one but im not happy with the women here as of my hole life

there are alot of good replys and alot of stupid ones. i thank good replyers for there thoughts on the subject. the common responce is im lookin in the wrong place. and your all probley right. i mainly hang out at the pool and school and a few clubs. the ones i find at clubs are the wild ones that one to spend my money. so i will make a effort to dismiss club women. at school i find the spoiled ones but with goals and drama. ill slow down in that area. but i wont stop hiting on women at the pool because the half nakedness is nice.

Answer 1

Stereotyping is wrong, you just weren't w/ the right ones.

Answer 2

I'm sorry your having such a hard time finding a great woman. But let me tell you some truth. NOT EVERYONE IS PERFECT! Believe it or not but some guys have baggage too, and not all guys have goals either. Now i'm not making any excuses for anyone. Doesn't matter who you are, keep your nose in your own business. If people want your opinion they will come to you and ask you. I don't know if I'm making any sense to you, but I'm trying. I guess as far as the different state thing, I live in South Dakota...and I think this is a pretty good state. And also it depends on where you are picking ur women up from? Bars? Definetly not a good idea.

Answer 3

Sounds like you need a reality check. Hardcore. In today's society, you are going to be lucky to find a woman or man who doesn't come with some kind of baggage. Men have the same "issues" as you have with women. I know men who will 1) try to take a money-making woman's money for granted, 2) be extremely lazy to the point that they leave their dirty clothes where they take them off instead of taking two extra seconds to walk them to the hamper and 3) have baggage they want someone else to fix for them. See, it isn't just women who are like this. Men have some of the same issues. You aren't looking for women in the right places if all you are finding are the ones who need you to support and fix everything for them. You are probably looking for women in bars and you aren't likely to find the best bunch of women there. (Don't get me wrong, some women who frequent bars are quite self-sufficient, but many aren't.) You seem to be a man with high expectations and it won't matter what state you move to. You need to have a better attitude toward others before you expect to find the best things out there. Get a life and realize that even women with baggage can be great and amazing people. Stop being a condesending jerk and give people a real chance to show you what they've got.

Answer 4

A lot of American Women are like this because they have been cultured to be like this. Try dating women from other countries, or women who just moved here. Other than that, you need to assess the woman's values before you get too close. You have to smoke them out, so to speak. Don't give them any money and see how they react...then you'll know if you have a good one or not.

Answer 5

Just stop associating with idiot women and move up a notch. Be prepared to move your own standards up a notch.

Start hanging out with people that do the kind of things you WANT to do, not the kind of people that are already doing what you are doing, or aren't even at your level.

If you run into someone that hits categories 1 2 and 3 from your question, Just leave and go NEXT!

Answer 6

You are just dating the wrong type for you, If you do not like women with children then there others that do. Most women have goals if there older, the younger ones really don't care, As you get older you will fined that out. Maybe best for you to date single women around your age group. ,who are single and not ready to settle down. The women with kids have more going for them , and have been thru the mill. They make good partners, Pem

Answer 7

Its a kind of over broad generalization. I want you to know I agree that a lot of American women are spoiled and selfish and lazy, but not all are. I don't know why American men don't marry foreign women--actually, a lot do. Friends who have married Russian girls or Filippino girls are in marriages that both partners are happy with. Still, there are many wonderful American women out there, I can think of one who is hooked up with a zero of a husband--spoiled, lazy, selfish, etc.

Answer 8

move to a different state maybe its just the girls in your state because i know im not like these girls i dont take money for granted im not lazy im up by 7 am and working out right when i get up and i dont have baggage i set goals for myself and i make them happen now matter how long and how hard it takes to make those goals happen

Answer 9

I blame TV and the influence it has over our society. This has become a norm in television and therefore it has become a norm in society. Our country thrives on mimicking what they feel is proper behavior based on what they see. When they watch tv as much as they have its just normal succesion that these type of characteristics begin adopted by them. Like kids watching western movies. Afterwards they wanna go outside and play cowboys and indians. Same concept

Answer 10

not all american women are like that. don't be so discriminating. I'm american, and i could care less if my guy bought me things. I'm sure as hell not spoiled and, to him, I'm not worthless. i don't like to sleep all day, in fact i don't even like to take a nap during the day. I don't want my man's money, i just want his love. i have no "baggage" that i want ANYONE to fix for me. I'm independant and can handle my own "baggage", thank you. I have plenty of goals in life, plan to be a counseling psycologist and photographer. I'm not bossy--me and my man compromise on things, he gets his way sometimes and others I get mine. so not EVERY american woman is the same way you think.

Answer 11

Just do what you are doing...take your time and get to know them....you will find a women that will suit you it just takes time....maybe you should try dating in your race....or maybe just as simple a different class of women.....go to the places that a higher class of people would go...that might help.....just keep in mind not all women are like the ones you have met....keep your chin up you will find her soon'